Did i just relapse !

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by VeryUnderstanding, Mar 3, 2016.

  1. VeryUnderstanding

    VeryUnderstanding Fapstronaut

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    Im watching a show with drama tv series with girls on it? Did i relapse i hope not.......
     
  2. jatar

    jatar Fapstronaut

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    If you're watching the show for the show, and it happens to have girls in it (I assume with some nudity involved), then I'd say that you're safe, but watch out for the triggers.

    If you're watching the show mainly to see the girls and arouse yourself, then you're on dangerous ground and you'll get different answers from everyone if you relapsed or not.

    So it depends on why you're watching the show.
     
  3. IGY

    IGY Guest

    No need to be confused man. If that was a reset none of us would last more than a few days. But be careful not to ogle. :rolleyes:
     
  4. VeryUnderstanding

    VeryUnderstanding Fapstronaut

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    My girlfriend was watching and i sat down and started watching after i knew o startes to oogle i stopped watching i hope it didn't count but either way i dont think it counts as a reset
     
  5. IGY

    IGY Guest

    The world we live in is ridiculously sexualised. We will see sexual triggers of one kind or another more than daily. :( The battle we have is in our brain. We need to get used to imposing our pre-frontal cortex (our reason and logic centre) over our amygdala (emotional centre, including our reward circuit). But it is even more complex than that because the strong compulsion to fulfil desire (in this case sexual desire), can affect our power of reason. This is manifest as rationalisation. :rolleyes: For example, "I will just look for a few seconds"; "this isn't porn" - yet it is something which triggers us for some reason.
     

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