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Did my penis length grew after 25 and is 5.9" good enough?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Darin, Oct 13, 2017.

  1. Darin

    Darin Fapstronaut

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    At 25 I was still about 5 inches (12cm) fully erect. But this morning when I woke up after a nocturnal emission with a morning wood I decided to measure it and it's about 5.9 inches (15 cm). 5.9 sounds much better than 5 and 15 than 12 lol. On sex chats with 5.9/15 they'll be like average, but before when I said 12 or 13 they were like too small dude. 14 is also seen as little but in my experience on those chats 15 is OK.

    I've always been insecure about my size for two reasons- 1) Due to hearing from many women that they prefer a larger penis (6 inches or above), and 2) Due to porn, seeing many men larger than me.

    I'd like to ask how is it possible for you penis to grow well into your mid to late 20s? According to most doctors it should stop developing at about 21-23. I am grateful for that of course.
     
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  2. Bale

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    Hi there, first thing I would say is that when you abstain from masturbating for a few weeks, your penis will be a bit bigger.

    Now, there is a big fuss about penis size because the only penises other than your own that you see are the ones in porn (and maybe in male public showers but I hope you don't creep out on guys by staring at their dicks).

    For women, the impression of size also actually depends on how they feel about you, and if you are a good lover or not: if you know how to please her other than by mere penetration. Guys who have it big are not necessarily good lovers because they are prone to rely on size only.

    Big size can get you the "wow" effect when a girl sees it, but during the actual act, it has its own issues like potentially hitting her cervix or damaging the inner side of her vagina (especially if not lubricated enough and for women after menopause).

    I'm personally 6.5" which is slightly above average (my flaccid size is rather small though, so I get the Hulk effect). Yet I do feel insecure about it sometimes, so I learned how to please a woman in other ways as well. My girlfriend thought it was rather big (and she's been with a number of guys before). However I can tell you that when I didn't really please her in bed she would call it bad sex (she didn't tell me directly though). I'm pretty sure she faked some orgasms too. So you really can't rely on size, except if you prefer winning a guys bragging contest over satisfying sex with women (personally I don't care about the former).

    There are ways you can increase the length and girth of your penis (jelqing, hydro-pump) over the course of a few months, like a penis workout program. That's fine if you want to go down that way, but in my opinion kegel exercises for men are an even better option because they can help you retain semen while still having orgasms... and even experience multiple orgasms. So you won't feel as drained after sex and you will both enjoy it more.
     
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  3. jorg78

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    It is not how big it is (in general) but how you use it and how you touch the girl during sex.
     
  4. Darin

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    Why use it at all for sex if I have post-orgasmic illness disorder?
     
  5. i was thinking of getting the size extender and using it like 20hrs a day or something. Any thoughts on that, I was going to use that and hydro pump x/bathmate :)
     
  6. Ready to be healthy

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    Personally I think that sounds very extreme, you would be better finding confidence in yourself and how you already are- porn gives normal guys like us very unrealistic ideas about penis size and most of us probably get insecure thinking we are smaller than average- we are not.

    Guys in porn are in that industry because they have unusually large penises- most ordinary guys sit between 5-6 inches on average and when you are in a real relationship with someone that loves you, the size of the penis will be the last thing your partner cares about- you can be an incredible lover no matter your penis size. Most women don't want something "massive" in them as it will hurt them.

    There are better ways you can improve your self confidence than by trying to change something superficial like penis size....

    For the record I don't believe any equipment that promises to improve size really works at all and you would only be wasting your time and money.
     
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  7. I`m not planning on being in a relatioship, my plan is to die a eunuch and die a virgin :p
     
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  8. WreckTangle

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    Only you can answer that :). If you have POID and you can O in any way without it being a problem for you, it seems to me it's been understood, effectively treated and you're reasonably OK. If that's not the case, I think you have a much more serious issue than no PMO can help you with.
     
  9. WreckTangle

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    The whole eunuch thing is overrated IMO ... [​IMG]
     
  10. well monks pepper is helping me with my mind and body and helping me achieve new forms of super saiyan nofap. :) but my mind is still needing to see things, I messed up the other day. I want to break my 22 day streak though :)
     
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  11. WreckTangle

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    LOL.

    Hang in there man ... you can do this!!
     
  12. Ready to be healthy

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    Then why do you need a bigger penis :p
     
  13. cause I want to be the best I kan be. I want it all. The weight loss, the monster C, the muscles, the money. And dangle it infront of all the desperate females and say "YOUR NOT GETTING ANY OF MY RESOURCES! YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE!" :p
     
  14. Bale

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    And then you'll realize how empty inside you feel because you pursued all those things that were mere suggestions from your ego. But most likely, you will fail in making long-lasting change because your desire stems from a position of insecurity. Just my two cents.
     
  15. ima monster, I kant have children. I kant have a family. Iam basically working on getting closer to god and waiting for the world to end
     
  16. MrW

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    Don't worry - your genetics determine penis size, your mind is a much more powerful tool.

    Don't forget girth as well - whilst I'm around 6 1/4" length my girth is nearly 6" so giving a "fuller" feeling to my SO (when I eventually get round to persuading her again !).

    Mind vs average size - mind wins !
     
    Last edited: Nov 21, 2017
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  17. DainTrinity

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    5 inches is average. Porn is a bunch of lies, the actual average penis sizes, above average, etc, are MUCH smaller than you might expect from watching porn. I learned this after women constantly told me I was big when I seemed very normal, but the bell curve and actual averages said I was above average.
     
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  18. MrW

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    Exactly - I hate to say it but its not what you've got but how you use it. Look at bell curves of size and girth and you will almost certainly be near the top of the curve.
     
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