did you have this epiphany ?

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  1. Master Chips

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    It is not only men are attracted to females. What you have mentioned is right that both men and women are attracted to each other, but as a majority; I think men are more triggered by such conditions. We can relate many examples related to cultures through history as well as Media, Movies.. etc
     
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  2. fedmom

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    I see what you mean I was using the word "straight" to refer to non masochistic men. You said men "don't care about women or their boundaries" which is not true. What you've said basically is that all men are misogynists lol.
     
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  3. Master Chips

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    I understand that there are some messed up concepts about how Females are judged when they do a mistake while if a man does the same mistake he won't be considered "as bad as the female", this is totally wrong for sure. But what we are sure about is that Porn Industry favors nobody and makes us humans devils in our actions toward each other. It makes monsters inside us that threat others with with harassment, rape, hate, objectification, it destructs relationships, it destructs a whole community.
     
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  4. shedernatinus

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    what you want to say is that men are expected to behave in a certain way; being aroused by female bodies. But women are expected to be more emotional, but this is completely false. From my own experience, and from the answer of many women who responded honestly (including my mother), I can say that women feel the same way as men. Those feelings are natural for both sexes.
     
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  5. shedernatinus

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    Sadly people took a long time to come to this conclusion.
     
  6. Master Chips

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    It depends. Pornography to the Eastern community has always been a decadent thing. There are those who knew that but were weak to control their lusts. And there are those who thought it is "fine" and understood the formula later. Then you have those "idiots" who have fell in the trap and are still defending it, they seem will never learn.
     
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  7. shedernatinus

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    Well I believe that you live in north america or europe then. Or not ?
    I don't want to pressure you into answering.
     
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  8. Master Chips

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    Why you think that I find porn fine ? :D But the answer is Not.
     
  9. Infrasapiens

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    Just another market that profits out of people's weaknesses.

    As a millionaire industry, it does illegal stuff. It is disgusting, but I'm sure more "friendly" industries do similar stuff.

    I really don't remember the name of any video in particular but most of them have this "Scum" filter on them, pretty similar to low budget, edgy films.

    It would be too easy to blame pornography to my failed relationship, it was my fault.

    I really don't care about pornography actors dying. Sure, it's tragic but I am not going to lose a night of sleep over it.
     
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  10. Di.Do.555

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    Porn is evil. Unfortunately the people who rule our world only want female freedom and empowerment only when it serves the plan to oversexualize our societies and destroy families.
    Porn serves this plan very well so it will never be regulated.
     
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    Men, women, feminists, MGTOW, doesn’t matter, we are in the same boat trying to get rid of PMO addiction and make our life better, so I won’t say that mostly ‘young aspiring women’ are damaged.
    I personally believe that in today’s society (majority of developed countries) men are oppressed by ‘pro feminist’ laws (watch ‘the red pill’ for example), but it is, how it is and again both sides lose because of this eventually.
     
  12. Mordobarn

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    That's a sweeping generalisation that is incorrect. Some people use other people not because the victims are men or because the victims are women, but because they (the perpetrators) have no morals.
    I've not seen any statistics as to whether that's true or false. Statistics must be hard to come by, because the dishonest side of the industry operates (obviously) in secret. There are just as many women as men who lack morals.
     
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  13. fedmom

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    The victims are men so they are misandrists. A lot of them believe in female supremacy as well.
     
  14. shedernatinus

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    Porn had never had any intentions to empower anybody, let alone disoriented women who struggle to find a place. And certainly not men who believe the life of a "performer" is full of glory and fame. It is only capitalising of a human's basic needs, and turning it into a "junk" product. Real female impowerment is for women to have equal status to men and have access to all the high positions mostly occupied by men. Not to dress lightly and act with no dignity, that is certainly not empowerment.
     
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  15. shedernatinus

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    I feel from your answer that you were addicted to femdom pornography , and I wish to understand the reasons behind that.
     
  16. fedmom

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    I only found the science about the root cause of why men get turned on by it last year. It's escalation from years of viewing porn from a young age and amazingly I didn't realize at the time that it was harming me or that I had a behavioural addiction. I actually thought that's how I naturally was unbelievably. I think I know now why you said sissy porn is related to misogyny. I think it might be because most women who do findom think submissive men are the type of men that created the patriarchy.
     
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  17. Di.Do.555

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    I think u misunderstood my reply.
     
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  18. shedernatinus

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    no, I said that society teaches that to young boys. But, as prince harry said, no man is born on this earth for the sole purpose to make women suffer.
     
  19. juniormelville

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    I think there was probably quite a bit of mind-reading, unfounded speculation and over-theorising in the OP you quoted, but there is a basic point that it seems to be regarded as particularly degrading for a man to be treated like a woman in porn. Did OP say that being a straight man makes you a misogynist? Or that watching straight porn does?
     
  20. 28yrsold

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    I had recently watched a series that talks about how porn destroys our life and how lives of thousands of girls are destroyed by this industry.

    That made me realize that by watching it I am indirectly becoming a part of that horrendous issue.

    My fight against PM has just begun so I can't say much but I am sure that it will be all positive once this thick cloud of sexual fantasies disappear.
     
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