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did you have this epiphany ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Feb 5, 2020.

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  1. You mean liberal "feminists", those folks never valued women's integrity, instead they took money and forgot everything they stood for. It's not because they were the foes of religious fanatics that they were the good guys, no they made things thousands times worse for female kind .
    Radical feminists were against pornography and everything it stood for since the very beginning, they knew this was a curse for the upcoming generations. But since everyone was paranoid about religious extremism and drugged by some dream of utopia, they just put them on the same box as the conservatives.
    Andrea Dworking wasn't the "harpie" those porn apologists paint her to be, she stated that "if women aren't going on mass-murdering men, wasn't because there was a shortage on kitchen knives, but because we believe in your humanity". We never reject any man who comes to realize his own mistakes and tries to turn the page on his hate and misogyny, and gives up on porn, in fact those men show the rest of their indoctrinated gender that their actions will not be condoned and being a man was no excuse for thinking less of women.
     
  2. hubbawulf1234

    hubbawulf1234 Fapstronaut

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    So that is why you are here?
     
  3. because this forum is not meant solely for men who can't get themselves to have erections anymore, this is not the mean reason you should stand against pornography.there are numerous reasons to oppose this misogynistic pedophile and immoral instrument, and among those reasons women and young girls and boys's safety and innocence .
    By asking me this question you are indirectly saying that pornography addiction is a male issue, and the only reason to give up on porn and ditch it for good is men's potency and ability to score, but this is only the tip of a morbid iceberg. Porn addiction is a female issue as a well, as wives and daughters who feels betrayed by their male loved ones, and also as secret addicts trying to find someone who understands them and doesn't comment about being a female addict is weird because "men are more visual".
     
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  4. yes proudly and without any doubt.
     
  5. That's not why I'm quitting but it's definitely one of the reasons.

    That is your problem right there. And that's why this thread turns out to be completely pointless for you, and us.
     
  6. I'm not the only one this way, this forum is full of men who want to restore their wives and lovers trusts and self-esteem. So it's not my problem it's many many people's problem.
     
  7. I feel sorry for you because you seem stuck in a warped reality. A lot of guys here decided to quit porn for humanist reasons (just read the various threads on the subject...).

    You are completelt biased and prejudiced.

    This discussion is pointless. I'm sorry.
     
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  8. I never said it's just your problem. I said exactly the opposite. That nowadays everybody is harmed by it.

    Your problem is that you put the blame 100% on all men. There is something wrong with your vision seriously. I'm not going to say thst to hurt you but maybe you shod go see a therapist to sort your fear and distrust of men out.
     
  9. hubbawulf1234

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    I agree. She comes off as a troll.
     
  10. It's very difficult to come to this conclusion, all you post here is about your precious recovery from pmo, you never post any article about how pornography exploit it's female and some of it's male performers, or about how it's shaping new generations' sexuality into some gross imitation of it's original state, by making them view abuse as "kinky" or "fun". All I see here is ED ED and ED , nothing really insightful or deep in here. But thank god there are some exceptions who really try to redeem themselves for everyone's sake.
     
  11. Why would I do that, It's not my fault for losing trust for people who never wanted to preserve it. I believe no amount of therapy is going to change my vision right now. I need to have meaningful loving relationships with my family and to be understood, I did resort to violence many times because of the lack of understanding, especially with boys who didn't respect my boundaries. Therapy is not some magical cure who transforms every person over a certain period of time, no it really doesn't.
    I never thought to be able to conceive such violent acts, I always was a pacifist child , but being hurt for over 15 years breaks even the most enduring individuals, so no one can blame me for being the way that I am.
    Sometime I feel there is a monster inside who becomes enraged every time I come across men who don't value women's humanity, and takes our resilience as granted. But thanks to my rationality I never caught myself in trouble.
    My personal history is not some isolated experience who had no roots in the phallocentric society I live in, I might be aggressive sometimes, but I'm the product of all the hate and invalidation I received for all those times. I have only one rule, one code of honor "I will never do something that harms me , But I will give the exact pain to someone who hurts me without having a reason to that".
     
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  12. Again, you are mistaken. You make generalizations. Have you even read other threads than this one? You think all men are the same. It's sad. You're just like the men who think all women just want to get fucked, but the other way around. You think all men are pigs who only think about their dicks. Sad way to see things.
     
  13. hubbawulf1234

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    May I ask, why are yo so combative? You have to see it's counter intuitive to go and pick fights on the internet. You are not progressing your cause. You come here to openly attack members and rub our noses in our own mess. We don't particularly need you here for that. I suggest you find a way to articulate an argument without the combativeness. If your cause has merit, let that merit carry you.
     
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  14. That's utter BS. There are many threads about that topic. Read that one for example: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/look-at-this-and-tell-me-porn-isnt-evil.263740/

    But you will only see what you want to see so it's probably pointless.

    I'm done wasting my time. You are completely prejudiced. It's insane. Your intentions were androgynistic all along with this thread...
     
  15. You really are enlightened @hubbawulf1234 :) I wish I was grounded like you are.
     
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  16. Seeing a therapist doesn't mean you are at fault... but that is what you should do if you want to heal and move on from those toxic relationships you had in the past.

    If you don't help yourself you will just keep living in anger and resentment and things will never become better for you. You will keep meeting bad men because this is all you can see.
     
  17. I certainly will,but I am very young and have ambitions in this life and no free time, but when the time come I will do what needs to be done.
     
  18. You are hurt and in pain, it's pretty obvious. You should heal your wounds sooner than later if you want to achieve your dreams and stop living in anger and resentment.
     
  19. trolling is the dumbest thing on the world.
     
  20. hubbawulf1234

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    I don't know if I am or not lol I've been her age and remember the fervor that she has
     

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