Different kinds of urges

Hello, I am on the Day 13 of my 14 days's hardmode challenge and I wanna to discuss here what kind of urges do we feel in the process of rebooting. How do we face each one? I thought all urges would appear exactly the same, but this is not what happens. From my experience I can describe these:

1-Necessity to relieve from anxiety: usually it comes because of an external situation that causes us stress or an internal emotional state of confusion, sadness, emptiness.

2-Boredom: an internal state too. It looks like nothing else will satisfies us.

3-Desire: of having a different sexual experience.

I am passing through number 3 right now and I am very confused. I had a dream that awakes this desire in me, I wasn't in any sexual activity exactly, but I was like cheating my girlfriend flirting with an attractive girl. Then I woke up with this desire of flirting with someone, of staring at beautiful girls and I am feeling that it is leading me to the desire of PMO. Any ideas of what it is and how to deal with?