Difficult second erection

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  1. drkarim

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    Nowadays although i can mantain erection for one time orgasm with my gf. It is very difficult even impossible to get a second one even if i tried it is semi hard and goes away any thoughts?
     
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  2. Uncle_Iroh

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    Well I say be thankful you have that first erection, for it could definitely be worse, but it sounds like desentization. You've being there and done that, your brain ain't after that again. It's like when you watch so much vanilla porn that you need something more to give you that kick again. I would say porn is still an attribute in this, just lay off porn, but also don't be too hard on yourself, if it doesn't come the second time just be grateful for the first and a chance to be intimate with your partner.
     
  3. Shin Iu

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    what uncle said is indeed true. Your gf can't satisfy your lust. Only the evil can do it but the price is high.
     
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  4. drkarim

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    Sad
     
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  5. Mr Anderson

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    depends on what you're doing for that second erection, if you're trying to get in a short amount of time after your first orgasm it is not going to happen, in my case I have to stay on bed hugging my gf just loving her and talking, maybe thirty minutes after or an hour I can get another one, it helps to drink water or eat food too hehe, after all you're exhausted and need to replenish those energies
     
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  6. drkarim

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    True thanks so much
     
  7. drkarim

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    Yes food and drinks help so much but i take much more than an hour maybe 6-8
    But i still watch p
     
  8. Mr Anderson

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    I'm on my 5 month of no pmo I just get off through sex with my wife, first months were hell for me, strong urges couldn't sleep but I see it now like a detox just like a drug addict, it gets better and easier as time pass. Today I can have erections easily, you might want to give it a try if this is important for you but be warned you can't go back to porn or masturbation, it has its benefits but it's a difficult life style
     
  9. drkarim

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    Not even masturbation without p?
     
  10. Uncle_Iroh

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    I hate to say it but masturbation will never be the same without porn, if anything masturbating without porn will most likely lead to chaser effect, in itself leading you back to porn.
     
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