Ive recently been trying to recover from PIED and have tried to have sex with real partners. But when things escalate or even when im just hanging out with a pretty girl just talking not even touching I get a discharge from my penis that I think is pre-cum. The thing is im still soft and that pre-cum worries me to the point that I dont think I can get an erection cause I think im done already. I really dont know what to make of this and want to know if anyone else has this happen to them too, or have you been able to get a boner after the discharge has happened, if this is normal or not?
I'd talk to the right doctor for that, as your situation has a lot of factors that may be unique to you. Also a partial ejaculation in whatever state of arousal is not a defect but a natural effect of the body. Some doctors I remember saying that full ejaculation of semen once commences is essential or health could be badly affected. No science I am aware of supports this.
Unless you also have pain in your urethra (sign of stis such as chlamidya) it is totally normal. Arousal will always lead to some sort of precum coming out even when soft. On days that I talk or flirt with an attractive girls I always noticed some white/clear stains on my underwear.
