Disliking masculine males

I have always disliked rude, spontaneous, really masculine males, and my reptile brain interprets when they clap me on the shoulder or want to pretend-wrestle as really aggressive. They also tend to dislike me instinctively, which actually is quite good since they then generally left me alone.

I get some sort of irrational fear that they want to have sex with me, and have gotten that since about age 11. That is somewhat disturbing, especially since I have a leadership position, and it makes it more difficult for me to order bodybuilders or muslims around.