Do All Men Desire Other Women??

Honestly, if a man says he's never been attracted to anyone but his wife--and assuming he's been married for a decade or more already, I'd take that with as big a grain of salt as I would for those decades-long married couples who claim they've never once argued. I suppose it might be possible in either case--I just would have a hard time believing it. It would certainly be rare indeed.

 

it can be reciprocated honestly.. I've actually come to the point where I only want one woman and mentally I can control my urges to even look at another woman because I know I have someone.. not to say I don't notice other women, and as far as conversation with another woman goes I won't think sexually of them but some women will subtly intice you with flirtatious manners which you can't really do anything about but ignore it mentally (laugh it off or just simply be flattered) then take that confidence home to wife/gf

 

No it is not like thath, every man can decide, if he want to be that way or not. I also was able to change. Still not to the end. But I have issues that I can not satisfy any woman just for beeing a little bit over the average. Cause in porn they are bigger and woman seemed so satisfied there. I know it is not true, but my heart keeps telling me.

And if you have a man, who loves you truly and watches his thought, then you will be his only one.

 

Just wanted to chime in on this, since I can see why this would be a distressing thought.

Men are absolutely capable of registering that a woman is attractive, processing it, and then letting it go. Arterburn Stephen's book Every Man's Battle does a pretty good job of capturing how male sexuality works on a psychological and practical level. In it he uses an image that is helpful: a man fighting for purity is like a stallion in a corral. There might be attractive mares that wander by, but it his decision to let them into his corral. Once they are in the corral, it becomes much more difficult to get rid of them; and there are also special issues that arise if it is a woman that he has to interact with regularly. But the point is, that it is possible for a guy to acknowledge the attractiveness of a woman without becoming attracted to her (in a way that would form some attachment).