Do any other nofappers ever worry about this?

@superstorm250 Thanks for sharing your story.
Your perceptions of women in your age group need a bit of revision. Perhaps you are reliving the narrative the P gives you, that all women want this type of experienced, dominant male. That's not true at all. In my marriage I'm definitely the more dominating personality. I never liked dominating men. I always preferred quiet, pensive, intellectual men. Everyone has different tastes.
You will NOT be rejected for a lack of relationship/ sexual experience. The main issue is having the patience to meet someone who you have chemistry with, who will also treat you with respect and trust.
At your age, a lot of women are also inexperienced, and going through that together is a lovely experience indeed. This is why PMO is so destructive. It feeds us a narrative that IRL is simply not true. Many women like considerate quiet men.
Listen, this is just me, but here are some recommendations I would make to help you on your journey to meeting someone that you care about.
-be a gentleman. Gender roles are so screwed up now with all the feminazi's around. Look, it's always nice when someone opens a door, pulls out a chair, takes your coat etc...
-smile, make eye contact. Not in a creepy way, but in a subtle way. I love eye contact. Even just a kind smile and eye contact is very flattering.
-have a hobby AFK. Try to get good at something. Women love people with talent and passion. This is a very common thing for women to like. It could be music, woodwork, a sport, cooking, history, whatever. Being passionate and good at something gives something to bond with someone over and share real values.
-accept rejection and move on. Finding a soul mate isn't easy. And if it was easy, they wouldn't be your soul mate.
-take care of your appearance. Keep yourself healthy. Eat well, sleep enough, get enough exercise. This will reflect itself incidentally in your appearance. I don't care what anyone says, someone who takes care of their appearance ultimately reflects that they live a healthy balanced life.
-don't rush the physical part of the relationship. earn it from each other.
I could go on and on. But in a nutshell, be a gentleman and make eye contact with a cheeky smile. Just try it next time you walk around. Even if you don't speak to anyone, that bit of human contact will start to build your confidence.
Kind Regards.

 

I worry about that too, im in the same situation...

 

Dont give a fuck for what they think, if they're that superficial they're probably lying about something you also dont know.

 

Hey dude, I was in the same boat once upon a time. First girl I ever dated I dated for 3 months, and only then did I finally work up the courage to kiss her(I was 3 sheets to the wind wasted) and then another 3 months to doing the deed (which was fuckin pathetic, due to the pmo). Oh. And I was Damn near 23. What im saying I guess, you gotta start some where. She didnt hold it against me that I had never kissed a girl or was a virgin, just went with it. I think woman like inexpiriance, in a way. Doesnt mean your submissive or anything, just a late bloomer. Also if I could tell myself one thing when I was that age, it would be to stop giving a Shit what people think of you. Im only learning that now. Anyhow, you hang in there dude!

 

So a few corrections re: submission. My husband is not submissive, he's just not as outgoing as me. Our gender roles are pretty clear. He's a proper lad. Likes football, plays his guitars, likes UFC and Joe Rogan podcasts etc...
Now I don't want to trigger anyone here, but some women genuinely do not want overtly over confident men.
Look the barrier from inexperience to experience is a very quick one when you've met the person that you like and trust. I'm not saying the lady you're going to marry, but your first proper relationship. You'll go from uncomfortable physical fumbling to something more (having to choose words here without writing 50 shades of grey...) lets say, meaningful and fulfilling. That is why trust is so important. Trust so you can be comfortable about your past experiences and lack of. Trust so you can explain that you want to know what she likes and you're willing to learn. Trust so you can tell her what you like (of course not twisted by PMO - but what you generally like)... I gotta stop typing on this topic, getting triggered.
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Please please trust me, inexperience is not a barrier to having a meaningful relationship with a woman. Just stay away from women like I am when I'm in a PMO phase, because the dark side of women like me is to take full advantage emotionally of inexperienced men... hence why I'm going to pop away from this post for awhile...
Kind Regards

 

@superstorm250, learn from the experience IRL, not the narrative you learn from P. That is your only true form of empirical evidence. So that is at 100% for success.
Look, I suspect your first experience was NOTHING like what you see in P. There is so much more to intimacy that the very singular one dimensional visual / audible assault you get from PMO. The best part is knowing that someone else trusts you, and wants to enjoy a moment with you.
It's such an eye opener for me to be here, seeing all the young people who's main experience of S is PMO. I suspect that people try to imitate what they see in P, but that's like trying to replay being Jason Bourne or Neo on the way to work! IE) It's f*cking fake! Just like real life is about as real as a Hollywood action blockbuster, real S is about as real as what you see in P.

 

Dude it's worth it. PMO is a bad habit and only leads to loneliness and tiredness.

You're 23 years old, you are still very young and can make your life whatever youd like to make it. That includes career, going back to a university, fitness, and dating. It's never too late to start, especially in your early 20s. And I wouldn't worry too much about being inexperienced. Most girls are looking for an emotional conncection, looking for someone that understands them and will be there for them (most guys want this to). So the fact that you don't have any experience in sexual relationships is nothing to worry about, when you meet a girl and start dating l that part of the relationship will come naturally.

I'm 26, I've dated a number of girls. But I'm lds (mormon) and so are the girls I date and so sex is something we wait for until we are married (we are allowed to kiss and make out, cuddle, etc.). However I do know, as I mentioned earlier, that these girls know that, while a sexual relationship is important, there are so many other factors that are far more important when looking for a spouse. I'm sure that girls that aren't lds (mormon) have very similar views, at least the girls that are looking for a solid, longterm relationship.

Anyway, I think you should start asking some girls out! Hop on tinder or bumble and see if you can start up some conversation with a nice gal. On a first date make it simple, go grab some frozen yogurt and chat for a little, 45 minutes tops, keep it short and sweet.

 

Simple, lie about your inexperience. Screw around with escorts, prostitutes or whatever to get sexual experience, then just make up some relationship stories. Works for me and a lot of people. Fake it til you make it. Life isn't fair, you have to make it fair.

 

Experience is a funny word...

I lost my virginity when I was 14 and slept with copious amounts of girls when I was 15-21 (I mean a shameful amount that I can't even count - that, I was once proud of, we all grow up at some point) I could last for ages when I met my fiance 8 years ago. Considering how many women I'd been with and pleased and how long I could last I really thought I was the mutts nuts... Nope turned out they where all just as young and inexperienced as me.

Point is, how experienced you are is relative to the person you're with. If I left my fiance and found a new girlfriend I'd be completely inexperienced again because all women have different likes and dislikes (one of my exes was into BDSM and being slapped, forced and degraded, I went out thinking most women liked it like that after her... Wrong) You have to learn what the woman your with likes and this is where one night stands and random sexual encounters don't help with experience in the slightest except for the fact you can say "well I've done it" So more to my point the fact you're a virgin doesn't really mean you're inexperienced. You'll learn and your partner will learn with you when you find her. If a woman is turned off / not interested in you because You're a virgin then she's not mature enough and is the wrong woman for you. On the flip side if she's super stoked you're a virgin and wants to fuck you asap she's probably getting some weird kick from taking your V and is also the wrong woman for you.