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Do i have a problem ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Amazing Athest, Mar 25, 2018.

  1. Amazing Athest

    Amazing Athest Fapstronaut

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    hello
    first thing first I want to give some information about my self
    The old me: I was very fat eating junk food daily and playing pc games all day long not much of friends very bad relationship with my parents doing M and watching P like 3 times a day and as you probably guest social anxiety and depression all the time and I felt very guilty for doing M but I kept doing it
    that was the old me
    and now the new me since I found nofap:
    I lost a lot of weight about 30kg I used to be 100kg now I'm 70kg. I workout every day
    I eat junk food with My friends like ones a week I have a good relationship with my parents now a very good one
    I have 2 best friends
    I take a cold shower every day and I meditate about 10 min a day now
    I talk to girls now and when I go out with my friends some girls start looking at me and smiling which makes me feel good about my self
    this is pretty much the new me
    now about my problem
    about an hour ago I watched P and M but unlike the old me I don't feel guilty or tired of doing it and no I don't have any temptation of doing it again at the moment so
    do I have a problem with porn and M? if yes then plz explain to me
     
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  2. IR254

    IR254 Fapstronaut

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    First of all, congratulations on all your sucesses! Great work!

    I highly recommend to stay away from porn and masturbation. I can tell you from experience, that you will start to feel very bad again, if you fall back to your old habits. Maybe doing it once now wasn't enough to get you back to your old situation, but if you keep doing it, it will eventually happen. Stay away from porn and see how much more you can achieve!
     
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  3. Amazing Athest

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    i see thank you
     
  4. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

    You see, when I relapsed after my 33 days streak, I didn't feel guilty too. But since then I relapse every 2-4 days. Urges may come to you later too.

    What I can suggest is that you try to avoid porn for at least some time (e.g. 1 month) and see what happens. If you have no problems doing so, possibly you have no addiction. But if you fail, it is a clear sign that you can't control your porn consumption.

    Guilt is not a good indicator of addiction because porn and masturbation, in particular, are not that prohibited by the modern society (depends on a country and your family background, of course). Also, I don't think that anyone should feel guilty just because they are addicted. Guilt may come as a result of some behavior caused by addiction (e.g. failing exams, losing a job, etc.), but not just from the fact that you have this disease. No one should feel guilty for being sick.

    I also suggest you to continue doing what you did to achieve your results. Don't quit this forum just because you think you're possibly not addicted. I've seen too many people who relapse because they stop doing their recovery program.
     
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  5. Amazing Athest

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    hmm alright thank you :)
     

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