I'm dating this girl for a couple of months but since we both are in college we couldn't hang out that much. I think we have seen each other i dont know like 15 times top. We have intimacy but not a lot of sex but we touch each other and stuff. The thing is i dont feel that much confidence with her yet. I'm still in the phase where i want to impress her. We are not deeply connected. We do connect during "sex" and care for each other. The thing is i relapsed hard last week and got a some sort of bacteria in my penis. It itchys and it's red. I think it's balanitis. I have to make an appointment to see an urologist. The thing is this girl invite me to her house this next week. She's obviously expecting sex. But I cant do it since I haven't gone to the doctor and healed my penis. As you know this is a really embarassing situation to tell to a girl you've been dating for a short time. But I can't refuse either to see her, since i already cancelled her this weekend and we haven't seen in two weeks (thats a lot). What should I do? I need your advice please! I hope i explained myself.