Do I tell my wife?

We can agree to disagree cause it would be rude and pointless to just copy and paste my clearly outlined points that you missed and twisted if you not gunna take them for what there are why would i explain the same messages again, My points were clear so if your going to turn twist every point i made or miss them completely even though they were layed out very clear, we're done here i wont talk to doesnt understand how to follow and understand basic cummication. And its seems your you can but your in denail because your twisting things because youd by aguing a lossing battle, and thats all you care about is saving face, done wastsing my time with you because you refuse to follow basic english.

 

Don't explain yourself more .
They won't .
Much love .

 

Please correct me if I'm wrong here, and I'm sure there are exceptions to what I'm about to say, but don't the majority of unmarried 20 something men nearly always aggressively advocate omissions of truths in marriages? It's kind of a thing.

Unfortunately, once you marry, your habits, history, finances and overall responsibilities kind of merge together into one sticky mess. There is really no such things as "my habits", "my addictions" or even "my opinion". My problems will always be my husband's problems, whether he knows about them or not (and yes, spouses can nearly always tell when something is awry, make no mistake).

Older men know this, and they can see around the corner. They've often been married and know that long term lies are much more damaging than coming clean, even when it comes to devastating issues like porn addiction. Truthful addicts work it out and go on to have successful marriages, while liars generally get caught and go on to live in misery or get a divorce.

So to the younger fellows out there: listen to those who have been married for a while. They know things you actually don't. They've seen shit hit the fan both once and twice, and they've developed tools to prevent complete matrimonial crashes. They know that women can work through porn addictions, but seldomly hidden porn addictions and lies. Once you get caught, she will never look at you the same way ever again. If you tell her, and is honest, her love for you will bounce back.