Do I use tinder during my reboot?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Mrcarlittoo, Sep 1, 2019.

  1. athlean

    athlean Fapstronaut

    i dont get why people think tinder is for hookups haha.

    i have 500 matches and NOT ONE was interested in a hook up (like 50% i didnt even message but you get the point).
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  2. 12&6

    12&6 Fapstronaut

    In theory I see a site thats two (or how many ever of said parties lol ) connecting on a basis for a reason. However-Tinder is at best what it and most all of those sites are. An ANALYTICS mechanism. You can have 500 connections because some are fake,some dead ends non repeats etc. Many hook up bc of timing,desperation or just if a man got pleasure from sticking his c*ck in a light socket he would do it(itd be a hell a lot cheaper) the point being your going into a data mining gig where the odds arent really in your favor but the overall operations succsess depends on it seeming like it is. Kinda like a casino etc. Even then someone hits a jackpot once in awhile(just to let them say wow I really does work) or even if they do get lucky a lot theres another cost relation to it (your info, your picture, your etc etc...worth very real money and more)The house always wins that game brother. Play your odds in the in between the tables action... walking amounst the chaos that is day to day. Say hello to ladies sex market bingo.
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  3. Plus Ultra

    Plus Ultra New Fapstronaut

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  4. mallecsouissi

    mallecsouissi New Fapstronaut

    Bro that happens to me the whole time!! is that some kind of a natural effect??
  5. SparkySub

    SparkySub Fapstronaut

    Personally, no. Just stick with human encounters for now or go to a proper dating site. I've found them to be less addictive and much better than tinder. However, I think you should stay clear of tinder etc, its more of a hookup app opposed to proper dating.
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  6. SorryWontSayIt

    SorryWontSayIt Fapstronaut

    Sorry for late answer :)

    I guess people want a motivated person, a person who are focused and work towards their goals. The problem is, that I don't have time for dating when people are getting interested in me. And when I stop being a busy motivated person, I feel like people lose interest in me. Maybe not all itnerest but a lot.
  7. Kiz Whalifa

    Kiz Whalifa Fapstronaut

    Tinder ain't it for that objective
  8. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    I used tinder last month for exactly one week but had to stop because it was pulling inside and i was wasting too much time chatting and giving swipes.
    But, im glad i used it because i had many intimate close chats and met very nice girls i'm still in contact with via whatsapp.

    I'm going to meet up with another girl soon for love and passionate sex and this is exactly what im needing right now to steer me away from my nasty porn and hookers addiction. I will never ever go back to watching that digital fake garbage whenn its so easy to get real sex.
    Nothing beats having real loving sex with a woman. So by all means use tinder as a tool and find what you need!
    Last edited: Oct 31, 2019
  9. Get_It

    Get_It Fapstronaut

    I never used Tinder before. For those that have had success on there is it mostly Turbo Chads and Staceys that get laid on tinder?
  10. BigBallOfFire

    BigBallOfFire Fapstronaut

    I had only one date with Tinder, I got like 19 matches but need to buy gold to see who that is and I got no new matches since... I guess the algorithm is fucking things up.
    I wouldnt want a gf from tinder, means she was fucked by a dozen of guys before. dont you think she wasnt...

    idk, do you provide your real age?
  11. KarmaWeaver

    KarmaWeaver Fapstronaut

    I'm a long time Tinder user, and for me it works perfectly, I really enjoy it. I met a lot of interesting people and had a lot of great moments. For me it's great because I no longer use social media so it's a good way to meet new people... and have sex, of course. But yeah, it's addicting, sometimes I spend a good amount of time swapping until my likes wear out lol

    Of course that meeting people face to face is way better, virtual contact is strange. A lot of matches don't yield conversations, and a lot of conversations just don't go forward, but that's just how it goes in the virtual world. Things move more smoothly once you get the person's number and move to whatsapp, because you can send audios and express yourself better.

    Man, that way of thinking is so retrograde. Who cares how many people someone has fucked? Should a woman care about how many people you have been with? What difference does it make? People who care about it are just insecure.
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  12. BigBallOfFire

    BigBallOfFire Fapstronaut

    I respectfully disagree. A key that can open many doors is a master key. A door lock that can be open by any key is a broken lock.. ;]

    how old are you? Im 37. maybe thats why I dont get as many matches [my profile etc is fine]
  13. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    Dude, I don't know where you are from but many nice, clean and smart girls also use Tinder.
    I'm very selective with my swipes and always skip those slutty, botox and goldigger types. I had 78 matches
    in the 7 days I used Tinder and already had 1 great date(no sex just talk) and have a new one planed for next week.

    Sex is great, but just drinking a coffee with a nice woman and share life stories is already fantastic for me.
    I'm not hunting for sex right now, but I wont turn it down either if i feel connected with a girl.
    Last edited: Nov 5, 2019
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  14. The sun is the limit

    The sun is the limit Fapstronaut

    Feel the same regarding focus on goals and visions/dreams and women finding me more interesting
  15. KarmaWeaver

    KarmaWeaver Fapstronaut

    That's it!

    I always hear that saying, but for me it makes no sense in this context. I'm 24.
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  16. My take-away from that but also from all the other posts: tinder is crap but at the same time it CAN get you a lof dates. Don't get addicted, don't use it as a p-sub but only as a dating-tool. Then you can be save and have fun.
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  17. tzusch

    tzusch Fapstronaut
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    I have been using tinder during my reboot and at times it both helped me and fucked me up. Best advice I can give you is to take your matches "seriously" in the sense that you won't just be stacking them up and talking to many of them endlessly. Try to find one you have chemistry with, and go on a date within the first 3-4 days max. If you click in real life too, then stop using tinder and keep seeing the same girl, whether you are looking for a relationship or just sex, it doesn't matter.

    Tinder should only be used to find a person to hang out with. Swipe for a few days, go on a few dates and when you click with someone then just stop using it. But whatever you do, don't start sexting matches left and right. That's what I did and really fucked up all my progress, I basically replaced PMO with sexting (SMO ?)
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  18. Jay Dolphin

    Jay Dolphin Fapstronaut

    Go ahead and use it. I've done it and find it boring personally. The only thing is, try to actually make sure you're going on real dates. If it's all online, quit. There are better does for going on real days though, like Hinge or Coffee Meets Bagel.
  19. BigBallOfFire

    BigBallOfFire Fapstronaut

    idk whats wrong but im rarely getting any matches. I got like 20 but to see who that is I need to purchase gold. system is rigged.
  20. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    Never give Tinder money.
    If your matches are low then work on using a good bio and very nice photo's.
    I sport a lot, so I have many sporting photo's and chicks love seeing a happy healthy man enjoying his passions.

    Most guys have a terrible profile, don't be like them.

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