Do I use tinder during my reboot?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Mrcarlittoo, Sep 1, 2019.

  1. Abstain from tinder during your reboot
     
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  2. BigBallOfFire

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    My photos are decent man, I am also sporty. Idk whats wrong with it in here.
     
  3. Jup1t3r

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    I got so horny after 5 days, I downloaded tinder and noticed something bad; basically that I was trying to make a substitute.

    I just deleted it from my phone and to be honest, I feel a little relieved. I’m so overstimulated. I need to stop.
     
  4. primaljade

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    Swiping on Tinder is a self-solving problem. Half the profiles are bots, vast-majority of the real ones are unattractive, there are too few to swipe right on, and you'll only match with a few of them, and maybe date 1 of those. Unless you're in huge city or a male model or something, there is just not enough leads to make Tinder worth bothering after you use it for a couple weeks.

    You *could* say it's a substitute, but it's a real crappy substitute and not worth the worry (unless you like dating the overweight feminist types... then you got a lot to worry about!).
     
  5. BigBallOfFire

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    exactly. after 2 months [and my 3rd run on tinder] I have 18 matches, 1 is a mutual match. so I need to purchase 'gold' to message the other ones - im sure this is a clever scam practice by the owners of the app - supposedly the biggest earning app now, and men pay for this... so unfair. nobody ever messages me and all [I'd say I'm a solid 6/10. Of course If I was 9/10 this would be diff]
     
  6. HVL85

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    Totally agree. They thrive on your failure, not your success. If you fail, you start paying with hopes of it getting better.

    I get a bunch of non-mutual matches every week. But I'll be damned if pay for a membership. I did that once, and it appeared all my non mutual matches were all very unattractive to me, or they live ridiculously far away, that, or they were already aged with kids. I was really disappointed. Don't EVER go past that pay wall. If it isn't a mutual match, then you weren't interested in them anyway. Why I paid? I guess I was just curious as to who were attracted to my profile, as if I wanted to know how I did 'in the market'.

    It hurt my feelings haha, but now I know about the 1:10 ratio, and everything else that explains the few and poor matches, I started to realize it wasn't me. That I've actually been attractive all along. I Just need to get out, more into the real world, where I actually did have plenty of success in the past. Even I, am sometimes still under the illusion these apps are helping me. I guess I'm only human, and they know how to make money off of it.
     
  7. BigBallOfFire

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    its a scam bro, its not real. most of these women are there only to boost their egos, and the remaining bunch - well, I dont need to mention what ''quality'' they represent, right? maybe 0,00001% is someone valuable but then... you got better chances chatting with a chick in a library

    > That I've actually been attractive all along. I Just need to get out, more into the real world, where I actually did have plenty of success in the past.

    this!
    exactly.
    in real life you can at least see if there is any connection and how the girl REALLY looks like.

    In reality , these apps hurt women the most - they encourage them to go for one night stands or worse. instead of building real value and relationships.
     
  8. No tinder just as bad as porn if not worse so mentally draining. just go outside pick a girl and start talking or go to events and stuff. Or start talking to a girl you know or just ask a friend to introduce you to one of thier friends. Plenty of ways to meet girls, stay away from pixels
     
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  9. TheLightOne

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    Short answer:
    Make your photos super cool so chicks are interested. Otherwise huge waste of time.
    Fake algorithms, girls boosting ego, bitches not willing to meet, just out of boredom.
    If you are ailling to fuck 5/10 girl then its ok. Pretty chicks will never go on a date with u.
     
  10. primaljade

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    Absolutely, I did this once when I got 30 likes and thought "at least one of them will be hot". There was one, like 500 miles away.

    The rest were 5's and/or too far away.
     
  11. BigBallOfFire

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    I cant understand why this is the most grossing app these days. are men really that naive? :[
     

  12. You are lucky out of your mind. I tried tinder and I barely was getting matches at all. I got a few fake accounts to so I eventually stopped using it. I realized after awhile I was just using it to browse photo's which wasn't the smartest idea.

    I would recommend to not use tinder and especially apps like Twitter. Its a black hole for inappropriate pictures just waiting to be seen. But if your getting matches then all I have to say is good luck man.

    I pray for that we all find the right woman we deserve. :)
     
  13. BigBallOfFire

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    when I added picture without my shirt I suddenly lost 4 matches :D but women showing off are ok! go figure! :D
     

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