I am just being direct, honest and say what I think. I want to help others, but I am not gonna please anyone. I am not a Nice Guy. Maybe you won’t like this post, because it is very direct, but in the long run you’ll maybe have more benefits from it. Ask yourself: Do you want to stop with porn for yourself or others? Deep down you know the answer. Don’t fool yourself. Had porn an negative effect on your life? Great, your motivation will be higher to stop. If not, most of the time the motivation won’t be there. Because there is no need to change something in your life. You’ll stop temporarily and eventually can’t resist the porn, because you have fun with your multiple girlfriends on screen. I have met many people in rehab, 12 steps and read many posts here about people that want to stop for their girlfriend/wife. Not even for themselves. So they don’t lose her.. This is a fucked up reason. It is impossible to stop for someone else. You’ll stop temporarily and be back watching porn and hiding it better from her. The motivation will be gone in an amount of time. Some people do it to get a girlfriend. Look, getting a girlfriend is a side effect of stopping porn, becoming a better man, self-improvement, self-respect, self-love etc. But if getting a girlfriend is the main goal, you’ll be back in a matter of time watching porn. Because the motivation is outside yourself. You’ll be back to porn when you have that girlfriend. Ask yourself if you can’t resist porn: Why should a women be with you? Why with you, if you are dishonest, hiding things from her, make her insecure and only see her as a sex object to perform porn fantasies on? She is not your pornstar. Why should she be with a weak childish boy, that even can’t resist porn? Porn is not a basic human need. You don’t need it to survive. If you can’t resist porn, how are you gonna handle tough moments in life like the current pandemic? A women can’t trust and build upon you. Why should she be with you if you rather have sex with your computer instead of loving, connecting and having great sex with her? When you do it all for yourself, wanting a better life, healthy dopamine system, healthy functioning brain, stop feeling shame and guilt, to be free, have more self-love, be more confident, have more energy, having a fulfulling life, having great sex, the motivation will be there. You’ll resist those urges/temptations and will fight through it. No matter what. Because you want it so badly, you will do everything for it. It will still be very hard and painful, but not impossible. The pain will be worth it. Eventually, great things will come in life. I do it all for myself. These days there are so many information (many books, articles,websites etc.) available that show the dangers of porn on the brain. I can maybe let someone know why I stopped or the books that I read, but it is up to them if they want to stop. I don’t have to convince others the dangers of porn or to persuade them to stop with it. Why should I? That is a waste of my time and energy. I can’t change others, only myself. I am only responsible for myself. If somebody wants to watch porn, let them be weak, live a miserable life and a slave of the porn industry. Let them have sex with multiple girlfriends on their computer. I really don’t care if other people want to watch porn. It’s up to them. I let people take their own responsibility. Have a great porn free day!