This problem of edging has messed with my NoFap journey tremendously, and has just recently caused me to reset. (earlier today) What I have learned through trial and error (and sometimes through error and error), is that for me, edging will always lead to a reset or relapse. There is no way that you can ride the fence on this one. You are either rebooting (not fapping) or relapsing and there is no in between. For me at least, today marks the day when I cut out edging entirely and stop messing around. I'm going full on monk mode are really going to give it all I've got.