I think it's understandable if a SO cheats on their PA partner and PA shouldn't think they're entitled to faithfulness from their SO when they've been unfaithful by looking at porn. Having said this I think forgiveness is better than revenge but taking revenge is understandable. So if you're a SO have you ever thought about or plan to cheat on your PA partner as a form of revenge? PA do you think your SO might cheat on you? Do you think you deserve to be cheated on?