Do SSRIs help?

PhilippB

Fapstronaut
Hello brother,

I hace a big problem rn.
I am trying to quit porn and sexchats for 2/3 years now and it is barely a bit better now, I am not edging as long as a year ago, which is due to my therapy i think.

Als my addiction to sexchats/porn (femdom, submissive stuff) is very proably a symptom for a deeper cause/traum which I am working out with my therapist.

My question now is: Can antideppressants (SSRIs) help my cure my addiction and easy the grip of addiction or will they maybe not work and even create more harm than good?
My therapist says that SSRIs would probably help my because some of them decreade the libido.

What is your experience? Please help my fellow brother I really need some good and also experienced answers fron your own life and not some youtube vid because i can look them up by myself.

Thank you really much and god bless you!
 
I was on Lexapro, and then went and saw a CSAT who switched me to Fluvoxamine. (150 mg/day). It definitely reduces the libido a LOT, but it also helps with the compulsive need to act out.
 
Hello,
thanks for the info!

The fact that the medicament reduces the libido is also a positive effect for me. I also hop thaz it will reduce the grip that triggers have on me.
 
Hello, i was exactly in your situation one year ago when i was asking other people the same thing and now after a one year on Sertraline (SSRI) and then Alventa (SNRI) i can tell you my version. Btw i have also major depression and anxiety thats the reason why iam taking that meds. So yes my libido decreased but even though my p and s addiction became maybe even stronger and harder than before, i stared to watch p even when i was not horny, just because i was searching for dopamine, but this schould not be your case. But my opinion on SSRI and PMO addiction is that do not expect miracles, i would be very surprised if there is a person who only need SSRI to get rid of this addiction. But you may be addicten because of depression etc. so if you need SSRI, dont be afraid of them !! and please dont listen other people. But dont expect that SSRI gonna solve everything but if you need them it’s neccessary for your journey.
 
Hello, i was exactly in your situation one year ago when i was asking other people the same thing and now after a one year on Sertraline (SSRI) and then Alventa (SNRI) i can tell you my version. Btw i have also major depression and anxiety thats the reason why iam taking that meds. So yes my libido decreased but even though my p and s addiction became maybe even stronger and harder than before, i stared to watch p even when i was not horny, just because i was searching for dopamine, but this schould not be your case. But my opinion on SSRI and PMO addiction is that do not expect miracles, i would be very surprised if there is a person who only need SSRI to get rid of this addiction. But you may be addicten because of depression etc. so if you need SSRI, dont be afraid of them !! and please dont listen other people. But dont expect that SSRI gonna solve everything but if you need them it’s neccessary for your journey.
Hello, thank you for your answer!

I guess you are right, I have really thought of the SSRIs as some sort of wonder medicine.
But I think I will try them, it woild be a good help to reduce my libido a bit and get some distance from the grip of addiction to work on my root-problema of the addiction.

Have a good day!
 
I am attaching sideeffects of one popular SSRI/SNRI --- u can find similar for other brands
link below :
EFFEXOR XR® (venlafaxine HCl) Homepage | Safety Info
What is the most important information I should know about EFFEXOR XR?

EFFEXOR XR may cause serious side effects, including:

Increased risk of suicidal thoughts and actions: EFFEXOR XR may increase suicidal thoughts and actions in some children, adolescents, and young adults, especially within the first few months of treatment or when the dose is changed. EFFEXOR XR is not for use in children.

  • Depression or other serious mental illnesses are the most important causes of suicidal thoughts or actions.
  • Pay close attention to any changes, especially sudden changes, in mood, behaviors, thoughts, or feelings. This is very important when an antidepressant medicine is started or when the dose is changed.
  • Call your healthcare provider right away to report new or sudden changes in mood, behavior, thoughts, or feelings.
  • Keep all follow-up visits with your healthcare provider as scheduled. Call your healthcare provider between visits as needed, especially if you have concerns about symptoms.
Call your healthcare provider or get emergency help right away if you or a family member have any of the following symptoms, especially if they are new, worse, or worry you:

  • attempts to commit suicide
  • thoughts about suicide or dying
  • acting aggressive, being angry, or violent
  • acting on dangerous impulses
  • new or worse depression
  • new or worse anxiety
  • panic attacks
  • feeling very agitated or restless
  • new or worse irritability
  • trouble sleeping
  • an extreme increase in activity or talking (mania)
  • other unusual changes in behavior or mood
 
I started taking small 10 mg Citalopram about 5 months ago. And this is the best I’ve done in years. Everyone’s chemical balance is different but have learnt that hyper sexuality is better treated as a compulsion. I have adhd with some ocd traits. The tablets helped with the obsessive rumination, anxiety and depression. So I was a lot less compulsive at trying to escape the obsessing part. I used intense sex as a way to escape my hectic stressing mind and if I’d been giving myself crap more trashy stuff like trans or femdom became apparent. I’ve stopped drinking booze too and had lots of therapy and do a lot of daily work and reaching out so it’s not just the pills but they e helped me loads and am loads more chilled around nice women too. Funnily enough a lot less homo erotic with strap on stuff and ts. The last time I visited a dom escort I ended up smashing her lol (I’m not encouraging this btw) They make you last forever in bed too. If you can avoid meds great but some could just be the right balance you’re trying to balance out with porn etc. Mine made me a bit of a zombie for the first 2-3 weeks with no libido and then felt pretty good
 
I’m taking ssris. I have a long streak. Flat libido. But I have removed triggers and put a safety filters in place. Ssris are good if you have depression. Start off at a low dose. See how you feel. To withdraw from them you need to do a slow but reasonably quick taper. Your mind will start shooting bullets and fireworks whilst coming off then but this doesn’t last long only a few days. Best to take also a side effect tablet with them called procyladine when coming off them . Ssris can cause weight gain and also sedate you a lot and a reduced metabolism making it difficult to move around.
 
It can help with depression and nofap. But make sure if you take them and you have a long nofap streak you do not relapse. Previously I was on a 700 day streak and came off all my medications when I got the 90-120 day mark. Nofap cures pmo induced depression. Trust me.
 
But it can also affect your driving and night vision causing bright lights and night blindness and confusion whilst driving. If you drive local should be fine but motorways could be a problem!
 
I started taking small 10 mg Citalopram about 5 months ago. And this is the best I’ve done in years. Everyone’s chemical balance is different but have learnt that hyper sexuality is better treated as a compulsion. I have adhd with some ocd traits. The tablets helped with the obsessive rumination, anxiety and depression. So I was a lot less compulsive at trying to escape the obsessing part. I used intense sex as a way to escape my hectic stressing mind and if I’d been giving myself crap more trashy stuff like trans or femdom became apparent. I’ve stopped drinking booze too and had lots of therapy and do a lot of daily work and reaching out so it’s not just the pills but they e helped me loads and am loads more chilled around nice women too. Funnily enough a lot less homo erotic with strap on stuff and ts. The last time I visited a dom escort I ended up smashing her lol (I’m not encouraging this btw) They make you last forever in bed too. If you can avoid meds great but some could just be the right balance you’re trying to balance out with porn etc. Mine made me a bit of a zombie for the first 2-3 weeks with no libido and then felt pretty good

Hello brother,

thank you for sharing your experiences! I can resonate a low with you.

I think they might help me too,

my first meeting with a doctor for subscribing me ssris is in July so I still have time to decide to not go there but I think I might give it a shot because I wmat to become free.
 
I’m taking ssris. I have a long streak. Flat libido. But I have removed triggers and put a safety filters in place. Ssris are good if you have depression. Start off at a low dose. See how you feel. To withdraw from them you need to do a slow but reasonably quick taper. Your mind will start shooting bullets and fireworks whilst coming off then but this doesn’t last long only a few days. Best to take also a side effect tablet with them called procyladine when coming off them . Ssris can cause weight gain and also sedate you a lot and a reduced metabolism making it difficult to move around.
Hello, thanks for your advice.

Is there a weight gain with all types of SSRIs? Because my therapist mentioned that there may be some pills without or with less risk of weight gain
 
Hello brother,

thank you for sharing your experiences! I can resonate a low with you.

I think they might help me too,

my first meeting with a doctor for subscribing me ssris is in July so I still have time to decide to not go there but I think I might give it a shot because I wmat to become free.
Gives you time to try other healthier options. What do you get from the femdom/what do you like about it? And what other coping strategies do you have in place?
 
There is no wonder pill to cure an addiction based on dopamine. What are you gonna do with serotonin? You're wrecking yourself more and more.
You get decreased libido during the flatline and they the sexual energy turns into creative energy permanent.
Hi, I could do with more creativity at the moment I’ve been slacking with my music. What rules have you set for yourself around MO and sex?
 
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