Do the benefits Go away after sex?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Gimpy, Feb 13, 2020 at 5:37 PM.

  1. Gimpy

    Gimpy New Fapstronaut

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    So I was thinking about how when you orgasm/relapse all or most of your benefits go away.


    Well if you have sex with a partner and you relapse do you still lose those benefits?

    For example I suffer from pied so if I had sex would it make it worse?
     
  2. Psalm27:1my light

    Psalm27:1my light Fapstronaut

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    No, my husband and I have sex regularly. It took about 4 months for his pied and de to go away. He does not masturbate at all anymore.
     
  3. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut

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    Wow, I am surprised that you have PIED at 15 years of age. :eek:
    Can you relate your story/history with porn and masturbation?

    The quickest and most effective way to reboot is via hardmode.
    That is, rebooting without any sexual release (even via a partner).

    Be sure to avoid any sexually stimulating material, not just porn. :oops:
    A p/sub = chicks in bikinis, underwear, swimwear or sexy clothes. :rolleyes:
     
  4. Ronaldo Machuca

    Ronaldo Machuca Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, you are still using sexual activities to get that dopamine. P*rn is just pieces of paper on a magazine or pixels on a screen. The act of stroking or stimulating your p*nis is the issue.
     
  5. Gimpy

    Gimpy New Fapstronaut

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    Yea I’m 15 and here’s my story


    Started porn at age 14. Friends told me to try it. Maybe used it 3 times a week.


    Couple weeks later I realized that 3 times a week turned into 2 times a day.


    Idk why I remember this one day in June of 2019(at least a year of pmo)
    i just noticed I couldn’t get erections like I use to.


    I had a girlfriend at the time and I’d hang out with her and I’d stop getting boners with her too.


    So I did my research and came across NoFap and pied.


    So I decided I would start a reboot and take back control.


    However, I failed. For 9 months I had failed to abstain from porn and masturbation.


    Until one day I just opened my eyes and said to myself I’m tired of feeling like this.


    I had a reason to fight for this.


    Anyway as of right now I’m currently on a 7 day streak, I lift weights, eat pretty healthy, meditate for 10 minutes daily.


    I just really want this to end and I have a very good feeling about this streak.
     

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