Do you think it's normal for women to be dominant?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Eryka, Nov 18, 2018.

  1. Eryka

    Eryka New Fapstronaut

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    I didn't know where else to post this question (it's sex related but I don't see where else to post this?)

    Do you guys think it's normal for women to be dominant in the bedroom?
     
  2. just as normal as it is for men. Some women like to be dominant, some men like to be dominated.
     
  3. ClaritySeeker

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    It really depends on the guy. I don't think most vanilla men would think it's normal, but I'm no longer vanilla, so I'm not sure. I think most guys on here may have a biased view given most of us are on here due to PMO and we've all probably watched BDSM. I think a dominant woman in the bedroom is enjoyable, but you're definitely going to get some bias on here. Also, you're 16, you should wait until 18 to have sex.
     
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  4. Most of all, don't believe in anything that porn suggests. Porn is a poor reflection of human sexual behaviour.

    Real women are certainly not as submissive as they are often portrayed in porn. On the other hand, you will have a hard time finding a woman that is as deliciously dominant in real life as the porn dominatrixes are.

    Actually, I know dominatrixes in real life. They are so nice, you would not think that they have this profession. It is all an act.
     
  5. elevate

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    Don't worry about what's "normal".

    That's a word for people that like to use who act in a way that they think other people will like them for. So they end up "normal" as a way to stay safe with other "normal" people that like to stay safe all while not finding each other interesting at all.
     
  6. Eryka

    Eryka New Fapstronaut

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    I should wait until I'm ready
    Wether it would be 16 or 18 or 20
     
  7. rickyracks

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    If the girl is older, rich, or you’re a virgin, do what she says. If not, don’t. If the girl insists, then it’s up to you to either agree and let her be in charge, or to assert yourself on top. It’s up to you tbh.
     
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  8. IAmLegion

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    What the fuck
     
  9. I don't think it's natural at all but it may be becoming more normal as people are very influenced by media. Women are being conditioned to be more masculine and men are being conditioned to be more subservient to women so I agree it may becoming more normal but it certainly isn't natural.
     
  10. Castielle

    Castielle Fapstronaut

    Just a PSA for anyone reading stuff like this... please remind yourself where you are. Is this really the group of people you want to take sex advice from? No offense, but many men here have some majorly screwed up perspectives because of porn, so its probably not the best place to come for healthy sex advice.
     
  11. outlander.9

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    +1. Not trying to talk shit but it's true that a lot of people here have some pretty silly ideas due to too much porn and lack of real experience.

    To answer you question though; yes it is perfectly normal. Just because the whole dynamic of dominant male with a submissive female is more popular in general doesn't mean that having it the other way around is weird or wrong in any way. What happens in the bedroom is private and doesn't concern anyone else anyway.
    Every person and every couple has a different way of doing these things and finding out who wants to do what during sex. For every person you meet that likes it one way there is another who likes it the other way, and plenty of people like to switch.

    It is something you will figure out naturally as you start having relationships, worry more about being safe and happy than what people think.
     
  12. ClaritySeeker

    ClaritySeeker Fapstronaut

    I'm speaking legally, unless where you live 16 is legal
     
  13. RecoveringWanker

    RecoveringWanker Fapstronaut

    What this guy said.
     
  14. RecoveringWanker

    RecoveringWanker Fapstronaut

    Haha truth!
     
  15. Themadfapper

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    No! It always comes across as weird, forced and unnatural [ or just off].
     
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  16. Stop being silly. I know from experience this is nonsense.

    No! No truth! No truth at all!!! @rickyracks is allowing stereotypes to take place here.
     
  17. RecoveringWanker

    RecoveringWanker Fapstronaut

    Oh noooooo - dastardly stereotypes. Won't someone please think of the children!!

    Calm down Blu. We're allowed to have different opinions
     
  18. rickyracks

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    I wouldn’t call it stereotypes lmfao. Like I said, it’s up to YOU. If you want to be the bottom that’s fine A man is entitled to wanting to be dominant, as is his nature. Just look at pretty much every animal in existence, the male is always dominant.
     
  19. outlander.9

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    Your opinion reeks of desperation, resentment and axe body spray.
     
  20. lolos

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