I keep talking how porn is extremely damaging because it trains you to want another man have sex with the woman you watch while you are only an observer but i think fantasizing in itself is also in 3rd person. Trying to understand fantasizing, it seems to me that the only true 1st person experiences of fantasy are either dreams or hypnosis. Anything except those is actually a combination of 1st with 3rd person, and it's predominantly 3rd person. Even if it's a sex fantasy or any other fantasy, it appears that the experience is that of a watcher of a scene rather than a participant. The more i look into it, the more i think it's impossible to have a true 1st person fantasy, but it's rather you looking on yourself (and others). It's you watching yourself having sex. (Or you watching yourself scoring a goal or something) What is your opinion?