Do you think women can feel your energy on NoFap

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Supercanadian, Feb 7, 2014.

  1. Supercanadian

    Supercanadian Fapstronaut

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    I find it hard to believe its psychological or that we just notice more. But I swear sence starting NoFap. Girls even text me more with out even being around during NoFap.

    Yesterday I took a cold shower and my phone was Recieving messages off the hook from a few girls I know. Before its like they never wanted to bother texting me back. No I was not more persistent to text at all and I didnt even text first

    Its like there is an energy connection Between people that you know. And strangers in person.

    Your theory or expirences?
     
  2. Supercanadian

    Supercanadian Fapstronaut

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    Maybe the law of attraction has some truth to it?
     
  3. slipsonic

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    Yes definitely. In the past before I knew about nofap, when I was single I would try to go 3-5 days between fapping, to keep my cool edge haha. but seriously, around day 4 you start noticing more chicks looking at you and seeming interested. It just gets better the longer you go it seems. Im at 8 days and yesterday I had a nice looking girl looking at me and smiling when I drove by, I smiled back :) just got back from walmart today, I had 3 ladies checking me out there, one behind the jewelry desk, looked and smiled and I didnt really notice but then realized she was smiling at me and by then she looked away embarrassed, and the cashier was flirting with me! I know that doesnt sound like much but before I would go 6 months or more without even a second look from ANY women. Im still getting used to this but I like it!
    Hopefully it will have that effect on my GF because shes the only one I really care about.
     
  4. Mark

    Mark Distinguished Fapstronaut

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  5. Iambuda

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    Hell yea, I've noticed it too. jiltedjohn your right bro everything is energy. Let's not waste this precious energy and use it to our positive advantage to the fullest.

    NoFap is the way to go.
     
  6. challenge

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    Of course they can! And they can definitely tell when you're drained out from too much fapping.
     
  7. challenge

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    Wow jilted john! Congrats on your 80 days! How do you feel ??? Would love to read a report when you reach 90
     
  8. William

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    Hi Super. Here is the thing; porn abuse is an internal, secretive, and solitary activity. When we do it we focus inward. When we quit, we begin to focus on the external. Sexually, that means we focus on real women in the real world. We are no longer isolating ourselves alone in a room to indulge a secret vice, but we step out of that existence to explore the beauty around us. A porn addict mostly just staggers through the world with his head down and his eyes lowered when it comes real women. But once you put porn behind you you will see that the world is full of women, and that almost all of them have something beautiful about them, something vital, something alive that the pixels will never have.

    Super, it is not that the women are noticing you more. It is that they are noticing you noticing them more. And they like it. Get out of your head and get out in the world. This is about as close to life advice as you will ever see me post on this forum. Turn the computer off, go out in the world and love being alive. The reality is that reality is far more vital, interesting, exciting, and inspirational than the illusion you are leaving behind.

    Peace.
     
  9. Mark

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    Cheers mate, I feel good and 'll be sure to jot something down ;)
     
  10. Mark

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    Yes this 'attraction' thing works on many levels (either for or against us!) and there's been some great observations on this thread. Love it :)
     

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