Have you read the popular Christian youth-leader favorite book? “I kissed dating goodbye”? Josh Harris... I not only read it eagerly but also recommended it to many friends when I or they were considering getting married. I’m Crushed to hear the author (I assume who is now rich and famous) has shelved the Christian beliefs that led him to create a counter-culture revolution in dating. I would still suggest the ideas he present on anti-dating are the best and biblical way for my son to use, but I don’t do them at all in practice. I struggle with the disparity this creates. It’s a classic truth versus feeling conflict , I wonder how do we overcome It? One of my favorite Jewish and conservative thinkers and Radio host Dr. Dennis Praeger says good behaviors lead to good feelings but I stumble with this . How do we uphold truth when we feel so distinctly? Is upholding truth when we feel numb to its blessings just a regular day in the life of a hypocrite ?