Does a handjob count as masturbation?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by xvtc ctvx, May 14, 2019.

Does a handjob count as masturbating?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  3. Maybe

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  1. xvtc ctvx

    xvtc ctvx Fapstronaut

    Such an awkward question but something that is gnawing at me...

    I am trying to do a 90-day reboot for PIED (Delayed Ejaculation), which I likely developed from PMO addiction and death grip.

    But does a handjob from another partner count as masturbating?

    So far I've been on hard mode but curious what everyone thinks about utilizing someone else's hand to get off.
     
  2. bfdet

    bfdet Fapstronaut

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    Hi @xvtc ctvx !

    Most folks say that hard mode is the fastest route to healing from PIED, DE and other PMO-related problems. What effects MO by another's help will have on your journey is simply put, unknown and un-knowable. Everybody is different. For folks that have been dealing with PMO and its ill effects for some time, a 90 day hard mode reboot may not even be long enough; healing may take longer. Doing something other than hard mode will work, but may take even longer than if true hard-mode.

    One thing to be aware of - if you aren't already - is the "chaser effect" that can happen after O by whatever means. There are a lot of posts about chaser effect available on this site (noFAP) so just search and read to learn about it. Knowing that the "chaser effect" may occur after an O can help you avoid resets and relapses.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
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  3. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    When a girl touch my meat and do the thing, i cant eyaculate. If i eyaculated trought a womans hand i will count as a victory.

    So, to me the answer is no. It count as sex.
     
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  4. Cuauhtli

    Cuauhtli Fapstronaut

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    I will count as sex!
     

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