Sometimes I get mixed feelings about this. But what about your thoughts? I believe some guys tend to put themselves down just because they haven't got "laid" or haven't "got some" and other related stuff. It is hard not to think like that especially when we live in a society where sex is so common. But would you consider yourself as a winner if you did have sex? I admit it, I'm 26 and I'm a virgin, but I would totally considered myself a complete loser 10 years. I was a dropout, lived with my parents, pmo'd like everyday, and had no fucking life. It took me years to gain confidence in myself and make my life better. However, when we talk about confidence in this situation, just one thing like losing your virginity, would make a difference in you or some sort. I hope some of you virgins out there aren't putting yourselves down like I used to and to those of you who are no longer virgins, give some ideas and new hopes. Ever since I've been on Nofap, I've felt like a winner!! I gained so much experience, knowledge, and good feedback from lots of people. Some are critical, but shit happens. I'm even proud of myself for taking pictures with girls such as group selfies, giving a girl my number for the first time, and being more confident around girls in general. And there's more to come. Although I need to get my pmo crap under control, Nofap has done a lot for me. Even though I'm still a virgin, I try not to put myself down like I used to. Nofap has taught me more important things to worry about than getting laid such as finishing college (which I'm doing) or something of equal importance. The more you focus on things like that the better. So if there's any virgins/non-virgins out there please share your thoughts.