Does chronic daily PMO makes girls stay away from you

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Khelloo, Jun 17, 2021.

  1. Khelloo

    Khelloo Fapstronaut

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    Regardless of other reasons,when you have good personality with average looking, does chronic PMO enough to make girls reject you
     
  2. Kung_fu_panda_

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    Welcome to nofap... I don't have any suggestions about this..... Stay strong...
     
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  3. Khelloo

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    I’m not asking for a suggestion I’m asking about any experience like that you have had,like things turned around after nofap especially with girls someone was loser and became winer,
    I don't need encouragement I’m already on nofap 50 days ago and see many benefits but before nofap during excessive daily PMO I was rejected by girls so I’m asking about if there’s a role
     
  4. Kung_fu_panda_

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    I have not any type of experience.... Because i like to stay away from girls.... My shy nature tells me to stay away from them.
     
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  5. skaterdrew

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    Basically chronic PMO use could change your personality, motivation and mental health for the worst.

    It could cause you to act in a way that women might not find attractive. So socially anxious, underconfident, and no real drive to actually go after women.
     
  6. Fishn1

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    The short and long answer is YES. If you're anything like me you are sexualizing women and everything around you. That doesn't give you a chance at all because you are responsible and no one is going to come save you, especially women who pick up on your vibe.
     
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  7. Khelloo

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    So we can say during PMO the girl who rejected a person after nofap she could like him ?
     
  8. Khelloo

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    I wasn’t sexualizing girls in my case all girls rejected me (during chronic PMO period) at first sight with first words they didn’t give me chances While People who worse than me in personality and looking had relationships I didn't understand why this was happening and now the question is back but I don’t know if PMO is the the culprit or it hasn’t this
    Huge effect?
     
  9. Stp890

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    If she knows your situation she may leave you,probably because she feels worried why you chose pixels in leau of her,or that your chronic PMO has caused you PIED,ED,or ED there by making her sexually satisfied.
     
  10. Fishn1

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    Ok I was speaking for myself, but if you are actively PMOing, then you are still not giving yourself a chance. PMO is most likely the culprit. See if you can stop for a while and if things get better. Don't compare yourself in looks or personality to anyone else, you are also defeating yourself here. It all comes back to you, not them.
     
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  11. 1ANDDONE

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    The brain comes to prefer PMO to interaction with live people. That is because the thing you really like is a neurological reward event, in the brain, that many here call a dopamine high. That occurs naturally, without PMO, but naturally, it is far less intense and prolonged that it is with PMO. Over time the brain sensitizes to PMO, but, correspondingly, desensitizes to natural triggers, aka, girls. It is not that they are less interested in you, but, whether you fully understand it, you are, owing to chronic PMO, less interested in them. I know it is odd to think of it in this way, but PMO is simply far more efficient in obtaining your dopamine high than real girls. Real girls require interaction, negotiation, patience, a least a bit of commitment. Porn requires two minutes and a computer screen. Girls find guys interesting who are interested in them. Because of chronic PMO, you are less interested in them.

    Hope this helps.

    Much love.

    1ANDDONE
     
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  12. Khelloo

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    Yeah,actually I’m not patient with girls but because my dignity not because PMO
    Bro I didn’t have sex in my life , I’m talking about the first stage of dating I mean that I fail in the first impression but I’m not sure if it’s because PMO or my nature
     
  13. 1ANDDONE

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    Quit PMO and you will know.
     
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  14. Khelloo

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    Actually I quited PMO 57 days ago and got amazing benefits.
    After 20 days of nofap for the first time in my life I had the courage to call out to a girl who I liked in the street but she didn’t answer me
    since then I have not found another girl and still don’t know if nofap can get me a girl or the problem is mine not PMO
     
  15. lococontigo

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    Well I have bestfriend and she is a girl:D. I asked her (while I was PMO-ing every day) to sink in love relationship. It was like we had that unbreakable relationship between us that, maybe, I thought, could lead us to love. She rejected me and I felt so disappointed in myself and started to ask what is wrong with me.

    Now things are different. After my nofap streak of 40 days, some stuff actually changed. It's not that women have some nose to smell my testosterone, but it's my behaviour.
    She is more likely to do some things and be little bit closer with me than she was. And I'm not even paying her attention that I used to.
    I think definetly that confidence is playing it's role here.

    So my beliefs are:
    If you failed first impression while asking girl for relationship or for date, it may be you. OR NOT. So don't be offended if someone rejects you. That's the most beta shit I ever experienced. It was a monologue in my head that I'm not enough for someone. I am enough for everyone, but not everyone is enough for me. That sounds egocentric but let's be honest. If you think that you're not enough and everyday think about rejection, you will never go out and seek women. You must fail to gain experience. You must gain experience to do shit better next time. Everyday should be +1XP, don't stagnate.
    You have to move on, constantly improving your social skills and abilities, and boosting your confidence.
    And for gods sake don't concentrate on women while nofap. This is not attention seeker journey, this journey improves almost every aspect of your life. Subconsciously, relationships and dating are included.

    Sometimes, it's better to get rejection then to end up with wrong person.
    I know you heard it lot of times, but soon you understand this, sooner you will be there: CHASE GOALS AND IMPROVE. DON'T FOCUS ON WOMEN. WOMEN ARE TEMPORARY. IF YOU THINK YOU LACK OF SOMETHING YOU WILL NEVER HAVE IT. IT'S ALL ABOUT FOCUS.

    thank you ladies and gentlemen, that's all
     
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  16. Khelloo

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    For me the most challenge in my life is to get a girlfriend ,although Nofap almost fixed all my problems and made me live a new life , still I didn’t achieve my big dream but I don’t know if it’s nofap role or not that is why I post the question here to see if anyone has the proof that nofap is responsible for relationships anyone who had any experience
     
  17. lococontigo

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    Do you want a relationship or only some action?
     
  18. lococontigo

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    I can tell you, I started nofap and after 15 days I end up with some girl.
     
  19. Khelloo

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    I want real love relationship ,I loved two girls and had crush on other three girls but they all rejected me , actually I spent all my life in cycle of chronic excessive daily PMO for 30 years.
     
  20. Khelloo

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    Indeed I was very needy in period of PMO I was begging the second girl who I was loving to give me the chance but now I’m totally changed more confidence more manly more powerful but still I have doubts that I’m enough for a girl still afraid of another rejection
     

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