does exessive pmo will lead to sexual life's problems in future ?

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  1. rashid07

    rashid07 Fapstronaut

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    hey!
    i have 27 years old and i feel low sex drive
    since i was 15 yrs old i addicted to fap and since 17 watch porn and fap .
    i have question now . question makes me confused
    1- does exessive pmo will lead to sexual life's problems in future ?
    example: a used car with (100000 km) is not like a new car ? does like that our body works ? in other way, does the production of semen will beeffected in future ..? i'm scared i want to have happy mariage :(
    btw i relapse at the day 35
    and i will write intersting topics in future that will heelp you ^^ from my own experience .
     
  2. tIoD

    tIoD Fapstronaut

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  3. Itsmeagain

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    Your brain will be the casualty. You may have issues with getting an erection, not because your body is failing, its because your brain maybe so used to constant variety that you may find a real woman besides you as "vanilla" and have a "malfunction" when it comes time for real sex.

    Trust me, It happened to me twice and this is why I'm here (again). Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction (aka PIED), is what may get you.
    Also, you may have an issue if your GF or spouse or whatever sex partner figures you are jerking off to porn. Your GF may start to compare herself to the actresses. So if the girl has a some issues with self-esteem and she knows you look at other girls, that girl may very well get angry or feel bad...you may have less sex because of that.

    In all cases, porn addiction is the enemy of real sex. Add to that some performance anxiety problem you may develop if your "john" is malfunctioning every once in a while, so you start getting anxious that the erection will actually be there and strong, then the stress may bet you to lose that erection...

    Mind you, I'm in my mid 40's now, and when I was 27, I had no erection issues, even if I was browsing P. Drinking and PMO are both enemies of your erections.

    BTW, honestly, many PMO'er have issues to keep and erection watching porn also, its when your brain doesn't even get excited enough that you end up edging with a limp penis

    some people say that too much masturbation causes lower production of testosterone. Not sure about all that, but low T may also mean low sex drive.

    In all case, you have to stop watching P and masturbate too often, you may feel an improvement if you do.
     
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  4. rashid07

    rashid07 Fapstronaut

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    how ? explain more i u know more information plz
     
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  6. tIoD

    tIoD Fapstronaut

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    There are tons of information about that subject, I just can't list them here. Go on yourbrainonporn.com, read porn addiction threads on this forum, just google it or watch youtube and you'll know that frightening truth about what Porn does to our brain and sexual life.
     
  7. 4DCreator

    4DCreator Fapstronaut

    I was 24 years on porn and I have no sexual problems whatsoever and never had. But porn makes you see women as body parts, so maybe less physically attractive women (kind ones, with a great soul) are not attractive for you as you are most attracted to those narcissistic highly attractive bitches (feel free to study Narcissistic personality disorder, at least 25 percent of all women have that disorder)

    Too much wanking makes you accept a shitty situation in your life without having energy and drive to change it for better. Then you find out that you are deep in a shitty situation so you start to wank even more to run away from those shitty feelings.
     
  8. Itsmeagain

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    You hit the nail on the head so hard! The kind ones with a great soul are the ones that will be a good life partner for us. The narcissistic "high maintenance" types that know they are very attractive often put a lot of effort into making guys noticing them are a no go to me. Just like a high performance european car, its too expensive to maintain...and not always reliable...sorry for the car analogy...my wife would kill me if she knew...She is totally AGAINST my car analogies...but she is kind with a great soul...:)

    As for the narcissists, I'm sure my daughter suffers from that badly...she thinks she's all that an a bag of chips....:emoji_popcorn:
     
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