Does getting an erection to adults means I'm gay?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by MarkusmPointer, May 10, 2019.

  1. 19m

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    this happened to me but what i did to figure out 100% if i was bi was when i got hard from the porn i asked myself if i want to have sex with this person in real life and make love and when i told myself that my penis immediately went down. But also i have never got an erection from other guys in real life tho.
     
  2. overclocked

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    It's a tricky situation. I would say the chances that you wired your brain to gay porn when you were naturally meant to grow into a straight man are very slim. But it's possible.
    You sound more like one of the many men who cannot cope with the fact that they are gay. The world is full of these men.

    So what's the plan? Do you want to do a nofap reboot until you hopefully get aroused by a real girl - for the first time in your life?
    Go ahead and do your reboot, but don't be disappointed if it won't turn you straight. It's not a choice.
     
  3. 19m

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    hey man i would like to say this happened to me as tho i started with straight porn and went into deeper stuff . But yesterday i meditated and the checked if i got aroused and it was very less but my was cd/ trans so is that different ? PLus Ive always known i was straight and my crush and dream person is a girl as well that i want to be with or even marry. So is my case a bit different ?
     
  4. overclocked

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    I am pretty sure that you are straight, 19m. What OP says about getting one's sexuality rewired is true. The reason as to why I doubt that OP is striaght is because he has never watched straight porn, if I read that correctly.
    I also got desensitized to "normal" stuff and devoloped some weird preferences and fantasies that weren't there before. These fantasies, with which I had in the beginning been obsessed with, grew weaker and weaker until they were not on my mind at all. So I can confirm that rebooting works. I hope that helps.
     
  5. 19m

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    Agreed ! Also have you tried meditating on releasing that negative energy? I did it last night and watched a video of my porn induced fetish and i got aroused significantly less then i did before !!
     
  6. overclocked

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    Testing is really bad. Your goal should be to never watch fetish content (or any other kind of porn) at all.
    I meditated a lot when I began rebooting. But I don't find meditation that useful anymore. I would rather work to achieve my goals.
     
  7. 19m

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    i know testing isn't good i was just curious
     
  8. TimeToQuitNow

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    Sounds like you're gay now.

    Stop watching porn and see if you're still gay. Maybe you'll turn straight again
     
  9. Tijn

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    So.. You were 10 years old, did you search for penises on purpose or was it an accident? You are not very clear on this part.
    And it matters because if you did it on purpose and you developed a liking for muscles you might just be gay.
    But i'm not an expert so don't take my word for it, but your story is different from most straight men who develop addiction to tranny p and stuff.
    Btw there's nothing wrong with being gay.
     

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