Does it ever get easier???

Brother ! I Have THE SAME QUESTION SO I STICK AROUND HERE WITH YOU WAITING FOR SOME TYPE OF ANSWER. I'm in the same boat now . Seven days and now is getting hard hard . I'm suffering with this today

My journal : https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/journal.177903/page-2

 

My first 20 days of PM withdrawal were hell on earth. Mental suffocation, almost crying while dealing with the urges, not wanting to do anything, zero motivation. Plus I was on medical leave with a broken foot, so I couldn't even have a nice distraction at work! RELAPSE WAS NOT AN OPTION WITH ME SO I HAD TO PAY FOR IT! (It's like math: The severity of the withdrawal equals the severity of the addiction. There's no way around it.) Finally, I cried, "What the fuck! The solution! What's the solution here?!" I pulled some affirmations from my heart, like 'I will not waste time and energy on fantasy any longer. I will not spill sperm for mere images on a TV or computer screen.' 'She is not in the room. She is not here. My fapping hand is not a vagina.' 'Reality is embracing life and real people. Time and energy must be for purposeful and enriching endeavors for meaningful and fulfilling results.' 'Fantasy is like a shadow or illusion. I must open my eyes to see life as it is, and to improve upon it daily.' And of course, give yourself a safety cushion if you feel you got to see that 'favorite image of your favorite model' because it's tearing you apart if you don't! This emergency procedure is optional, of course. Ideally, it's great if you never have to, but if you have to, to prevent a relapse, then pull up that image and spiritualize it. That image should represent to you all the greatest erotica you've ever seen! Think thoughts like, "She's a divine soul clothed in a beautiful form! A beautiful woman is God's greatest creation! She is passing through in this life on the wings of eternity!" See her as she really is! Do not masturbate! Do not masturbate! IT'S NOT AN EXCUSE FOR JERKING OFF! It won't be a porn relapse because you spiritualized it in order to make peace with yourself so you can go on with your life. This is only my safety cushion if I need to do it. I haven't done it yet. Maybe I never will. But the whole point of this is: Work out a system that is best for you that will make a relapse a near impossibility (if not a total one!)

 

The 87th of the 90-day challenge I think I got this in the bag woke up with a boner don't feel like a loner headed to the hundred 20 day challenge 180 day challenge the 275 day challenge and beginning to post in the 365 days challenges sign a newabstinence extension last night this one goes through the 22nd of December to ensure that I am cured from this monster pmo foreverGod bless he forgives all he chooses and the wife decides when this man will have sex again hard mode pmo all the way is the only way in my opinion onlybooyah Happy Father's Day
I can tell you right now if you stick it out what happens is your like the boxer you're just more prepared for it and makes it easier to deal with yes you learn how to ignore it and it works your mind controls your brain your brain controls your body does not control your mind okay your body yet you let it can make 99% of your decisions it does not hurt a man to not orgasm to not jack off to not come okay I have boners every single morning you know what they do for me? It points me in the direction of the coffee maker, give me a place to hang my shirt, it lets me know that it's still working but I don't want it to you right now, it's God's way of saying when my wife's ready he'll decide and she'll choose Happy Father's Day

 

That's was awesome man!!!!! Wow. Lol thank you alot

 

My brother thank you alot for everything you said. I need that right now alot! I really appreciate it.. I'm sure my buddy here the one that created the post is also very thanksfull ! I have to keep pushing hard

 

I'm also married to a really hot German lady for the awesome body and sexy as hell and I've had and undetermined amount of sex in 33 years and a continuous supply of it we're both doing hard mode pmo together limited touch limited nudity light kisses and hugs.
That's absolutely no porn no masterbation no orgasm 87 days out of 90 towards 120 towards 280 towards 275 toys 365 whatever it takes I don't need to have an orgasm to prove I'm a person I'm a man that I'm bigger and better than this if you think that that's all you have a value is shooting your wad then you really need to maybe think about something else in this site everybody has a pity party it's how long you stay there I remember your little clown dopamine crack pipe dick does not control you

 

If you ever need help or anything like that I got a WhatsApp contact you so I'm going to do whatever I'm helping you helping me okay unless you're going to not do pmo hardmode the only consistent condition I have is for you to do pmo hard mode only doing so I will help you if not set yourself up for another relapse I guess got a little puppet face on your dick and see what happens

 

Hahaha Lil puppet face on the Mr dude.

 

Thank you alot man. You're awesome.!!!

 

The trick for me is don't sit around too much keep yourself occupied something else in your hands besides your dick you clean up your thoughts in your mind will follow you shine your crap into the Lord and his life and it will clean it up

 

Hey I just notice that u relapsed. Get back on the horse !!! Don't let it depress you.