Does my crush like me back or being friendly/naive?

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So I have this coworker who I’m attracted to. We both got hired at the same time so in our first week of working we were both alone in the break room and started conversation with each just making small talk and asking about work. So I stopped talking to her and their was this period of 5-10 seconds of silence as I kind of ended it and then she asks “do you have a girlfriend “ She always be teasing me and making fun of me and making witty and sarcastic remarks to me. I this is her personality also but I noticed I notice she always finds a way to touch or bump me when close by. A few times I tested to see if she would touch me when I seen her coming and knew she had space to go around and she still made slight body contact with me. Also sometimes when talking her feet will slightly touch mine and she won’t move her foot away. I always have to move mine first and I know she must feel our feet touching. She has walked by and ran her fingers through my hair and touched me on my back when I wasn’t paying attention and said hi or made a silly face at me. I’ve noticed on a few occasions I can see/feel her/ looking at me with the corner of my eye and when I look up and make eye contact with her I give her a head nod and say “what’s up” or “what?” She will respond by saying”nothing” and just walk away or make a silly face or roll her eyes at me. I notice she touches her hair and makes direct eye contact when we speak sometimes, she also seems to fix herself and her hair whenever I’m around regardless if other people are there or not. We don’t really text a lot or often mainly for holidays/birthdays events etc but I noticed she uses my first name a lot in the texts, which is interesting because I’ve never had a female friend do this. One time I was telling her about a situation with a girl I was involved with who said something sexual to me and I think she got jealous because she said in a sarcastic manner and rolled her eyes “ oh you like those type of girls”.
 
Proximity, touching, talking, flirting, and relationship probing.
Yeah the relationship probing question tbf could of have been about our other new coworker who also became her friend taking a liking in me but honestly after she asked me that that’s when I started picking up on stuff , yeah the little accidental touches became goofy and silly to me after it happened multiple times and saying in my head “wtf, is she trying to flirt with me or just being goofy in a friend way
 
Are you going to immediately ask her out and then report back to us on here exactly what happened?

would be cool if you did!
 
No not at this point in time, I’m waiting until I’m pmo free before doing anything

however, asking her out and her saying yes….. —- this could send you on a different life projectory which could actually help you in the long term to overcome PMO

A new lifestyle and quitting PMO have worked for some people I’m pretty sure
 
however, asking her out and her saying yes….. —- this could send you on a different life projectory which could actually help you in the long term to overcome PMO

A new lifestyle and quitting PMO have worked for some people I’m pretty sure
Yeah I know, the thing is she very religious so I honestly wouldn’t have to worry about sex or releasing semen with her pretty much .

Yeah I’m sure it will help me overall when dealing with her and having developed a massive crush on her . Also will be curious to see if she acts differently around me or if she notices anything different about me. I’m especially curious because one time when I was on my longest streak she did something pretty irrational and goofy but kinda flirty I guess to me. We were sitting together during her youth group and she was help translating it for me and something about the topic at hand or were discussing at that point had something to do with color or the word color I forgot but anyways out of nowhere she randomly puts her forearm all up against my forearm for like a good 3-4 seconds I’d say until I removed my arm first because of the tension and confusion. I remember her saying something along the lines of “ oh ! Just like the color of our skins” and basically just compared our skin tones. I kinda laughed and was like wtf in my head lol
 
You’re happy that your crush won’t want to have sex with you. Just kinda the opposite of my mindset.

While in a sexually satisfying relationship, I’ve never had problems with P.
 
Yeah I know, the thing is she very religious so I honestly wouldn’t have to worry about sex or releasing semen with her pretty much .

Yeah I’m sure it will help me overall when dealing with her and having developed a massive crush on her . Also will be curious to see if she acts differently around me or if she notices anything different about me. I’m especially curious because one time when I was on my longest streak she did something pretty irrational and goofy but kinda flirty I guess to me. We were sitting together during her youth group and she was help translating it for me and something about the topic at hand or were discussing at that point had something to do with color or the word color I forgot but anyways out of nowhere she randomly puts her forearm all up against my forearm for like a good 3-4 seconds I’d say until I removed my arm first because of the tension and confusion. I remember her saying something along the lines of “ oh ! Just like the color of our skins” and basically just compared our skin tones. I kinda laughed and was like wtf in my head lol

I can see your point... I used to go to church groups too... well, good luck with quitting porn and masturbation, I hope your current streak lasts forever
 
Well I just found out that my crush unfollowed me on Instagram and I honestly have no clue why. Idk how to feel tbh

I’ve been around Christian girls and just girls in general a lot

if you guys aren’t dating yet, it is like a 99.999999999% chance you aren’t gonna date

if she truly is super religious, she is gonna go for a guy she wants to spend the rest of her life with

she knows you like her already man… girls can tell really easily. She knows if she wanted to date you all she would have to do is ask you to hang out

there is literally, truly no point in having a crush on this girl or looking at her as “your crush”

Unless you are going to start dating now, immediately, just move on

in the end, all you are doing is harming yourself by continuing to think about this girl. Move on with your life and better yourself. Start studying the Bible more intensely so you can impress people at the youth group with your Bible knowledge. Get your body and mind super healthy, quit porn and masturbation entirely. Forget about this girl… or ask her on a date.
 
Unless you are going to start dating now, immediately, just move on

in the end, all you are doing is harming yourself by continuing to think about this girl. Move on with your life and better yourself. Start studying the Bible more intensely so you can impress people at the youth group with your Bible knowledge. Get your body and mind super healthy, quit porn and masturbation entirely. Forget about this girl… or ask her on a date.

100% this part. Either date or she is a massive distraction.
 
Yeah
I’ve been around Christian girls and just girls in general a lot

if you guys aren’t dating yet, it is like a 99.999999999% chance you aren’t gonna date

if she truly is super religious, she is gonna go for a guy she wants to spend the rest of her life with

she knows you like her already man… girls can tell really easily. She knows if she wanted to date you all she would have to do is ask you to hang out

there is literally, truly no point in having a crush on this girl or looking at her as “your crush”

Unless you are going to start dating now, immediately, just move on

in the end, all you are doing is harming yourself by continuing to think about this girl. Move on with your life and better yourself. Start studying the Bible more intensely so you can impress people at the youth group with your Bible knowledge. Get your body and mind super healthy, quit porn and masturbation entirely. Forget about this girl… or ask her on a date.
Yeah you’re right man , ima just focus on getting clean, getting healthy, shake off this Then I plan on hitting her up when I’m changed and lust free. I know I’ll be able to handle a potential difficult conversation with her. Who knows when people say girls they liked or got rejected by ended up actually liking them once they got pmo free
 
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