Does nofap attraction work for anyone

NoFap will not make you more attractive to women. Anyone who says otherwise is a quack. What will make you more attractive to women is getting out there and making a name for yourself, making yourself more competent and confident. Women do not give the slightest shit about the last time you had an orgasm. They would much rather go out with the stable, happy 30yo with a lamborghini and massive house but jerks off daily than the degenerating 21yo who still lives with his parents but hasn't spilled his seed in 90 days.

Get out there.

 

Am I seeing double ?

 

People react more positively to me when i gave up masturbating. I figure its the way u carry yourself. Im proud of my progress day by day so that shows in my body language and i guess people pick up on it. Girls definitely give me more positive reactions when i dont masturbate than when i do. Testosterone is real, and it builds up when u don't nut out ur goo every 5 secs. My main problem is im a huge pussy sometimes and im not into taking the opportunities nofap is giving me with women. I cant count how many opportunities ive had. Cant even strike up a convo cause i think too far ahead. Aint that a bitch?

 

It didn’t seem to make much of a difference for me

 

Yup, not a smidgen of a difference for me. I think if you really believe it can happen, that you are magically more attractive, if you are 100% convinced then yes, i think it can happen. Mindset sculpts your reality so if you really believe you are more attractive then you will be more attractive.

 

You should be banned from this site. If you can’t say something nice. Shut up.

 

there's your problem right there. look man there is no "unattractive" person, you can either be attractive or less attractive. by less attractive i mean you may not have the most photogenic face.

it all comes down to what your made of. i have a friend that does not have the best face but he gets girls left and right.

yes looks do matter and help with first impressions but girls don't see guys the way guys would see girls.
to girls what matters is how you are socially, physically and financially (money DOES matter to an extent)

i suggest you get a good physique by exercising, find a nice plan. use athlean x on youtube or whatever but get that. next find yourself a job ( you can't live on parents forever). once you will be decent in the health and wealth sector, girls will come to you instead of you going to them.

 

didnt do sit for me really. although i didnt attract anything even before i fapped so pmo wasnt my issue hahaha

 

didnt do sit for me really. although i didnt attract anything even before i fapped so pmo wasnt my issue hahaha

 

When it comes down to it, its all about game. If you improve your game, you can easily beat your friends. Doesnt even matter about nofap, if you know how to talk to girls. Its all about seduction. If you want girls so bad why dont you approach them instead of waiting for them to come to you. When you go for what you want its alpha af, compared to waiting looking at your friends getting approached.

You should work on being relaxed when talking to girls, thats when you are able to be your true self and say whatever you want because you dont worry about shit. You are being you.

Another thing when you talk to girls a lot of time you wont connect, thats why you gotta talk to a lot of girls because when there is finally a connection, magic happens. If there is never magic, you need to improve your game.

The biggest ballers in life dont let anything get in their way of achieving their goals. All the insecurities and wishing nofap would work is all in the end bs.

 

1. Yes, it works. Attraction through semen retention is real. I've experienced it many, many times. But ...
For most guys it doesn't work, because they are just simply using their willpower to resist the urge to fap or orgasm. Like a priest would do. Are most priests attractive to women? Not really, at least not for sexual reasons. The issue there is, that if you use your willpower to "fight down" your urge to be sexual, the sexual energy can't circle through your body and this leads to frustration or f.e. semen leaks via wet dreams. You won't have sexual charisma at all.
How do you circle that energy in your body? Meditate daily. Keep breathing deep during the day, in your belly, so it moves in and out. Imagine the breath going down into your genital region, as you breathe in, and then as you breath out, let the energy from down there wander up your spine via visualisation. If you do this regular and have a streak going that is about over 100 days ... well see it for yourself.

And ... the other big thing with attraction through semen retention/nofap ... and why it doesn't work for most men is: Maybe the women feels the sexual energy and gets attracted and curious, but as soon she interacts with the men this attraction gets destroyed.

What I mean with this is, semen retention on it's own, won't lead you anywhere with women. As long it isn't based on some healthy masculinity, a basic understanding of women (what is it really that a women wants in a man? besides from shitty assumptions like "big cars" or "I just have to behave like an asshole") and seduction.

2. Don't focus on girls in your social circle or extended social circle. Go out and learn how to approach complete strangers. That's the only way for a men to live in abundance with women. This gives you a huge freedom. And women like men, who are free.

3. If you flirt with a girl make sure to communicate her through your eyes, that you find her attractive and this will not just be a friendship ... Make your intentions clear from the beginning.

4. Try to make some kind of emotional connection with the girl. So don't just talk about boring facts, that in the end don't have no meaning at all. When you conversate with a girl, try to dive a bit more into deeper topics. The more emotions she feels while she's with you, the more likely she wants to see you again.

5. If you say, you don't look good ... maybe that's true, maybe not ... doesn't matter that much. You say you're 23, that's a good age, to start dressing really well. Find your own style, and have a better wardrobe than the average guy. Women like men, who know how to dress.

 

I both agree and disagree. First, there are unattractive men, I know men that just repel me and other women BUT it has indeed nothing to do with their facial traits for instance, it can be multiple things, sometimes it can be the man shows he's very confident, want to be the center of attention, if he could pee everywhere to mark his territory he would and as a paradox, one can sense this extra confidence is because he actually lacks self confidence. And that makes him unattractive.
Unattractiveness is something you can change, and has got to do with genuine self confidence, know your value mate, understand it and it'll show, if you are less attractive because of what nature gave you (talking strictly about facial traits, and appearance) it really doesn't matter as long as you are nice, not a try hard, stable (although you really don't have to have a lamborghini haha).
Basically, feel good about yourself inside and it'll show outside.
Working out or soing some kind of sport is a bonus since it's a self confidence booster (inside) and gives you muscle (outside) that a lot of women, let's face it, we appreciate, just like you appreciate a fit body I guess.

 

yea this is the exact point i wanted to get across to OP. what is it that you disagree with?

 

That there are unattractive men, meaning repellent, but there are so because of how they act rather than how they look.

 

First I will admit TLDR, however I have some thoughts about this.

NoFap doesn't make you more attractive because "haha NoFap powers lmao laughing face emoji". NoFap makes you more attractive because people who exercise discipline and live in a manner that is progress-oriented and self-loving ARE more attractive.

 

Basically what @FellatiousD said. NoFap attraction does not exist. Disciplined, high-status male with a good job and good self-care attraction however, does exist.

 

There is no specific thing as nofap attraction, the term itself is pretty vague, it's just what you make yourself with the immense energy preserved by semen retention,and the emotions you're able to cherish because of porn abstinence.

If you do not have any positive habits that'll channel the energy into your body such as yoga/workouts/running etc. You're just letting it go.