Does nofap kill your sex drive, or your masturbational urges?

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Ive heard of one guy saying that his masturbational urges would die out after doing nofap. But personally, my sex drive would be lower when I go days without relapsing. I don't know if it's just that fact of me being an aegosexual (Aegosexual- An person who can get aroused by things meant to sexually excite you, but has no interest in sex). Is there any other guys out there who feel like this? Or does nofap just increase your sex drive?
 
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I'm on my 3rd reboot try. I'm 5 days in. I haven't been horny yet. My first two were 26 and 16. I relapsed because my urges were super intense and I literally felt like I was about to explode.
 
I've been NoFap for about ten days now. So far I've had very little sex drive. I do get very excited when I'm out in public and see an attractive woman with a nice figure, but there's not much going on between my pockets right now. Feels kind of like a plant that's wilting because it hasn't been watered in awhile.
So I guess I'm sort of in the same place as you. I'm assuming that it's because of depending on P to get it up for so long. I'm hoping this eventually passes and I'm able to spring a raging boner at the very sight of an attractive woman.
But for now, it's probably a good thing that there's nothing going on down there. This should help to keep me on track to reach those goals.
Best of luck and hang in there! Things have to get better. Otherwise no one would be putting themselves through this torture!
 
I haven't ever had a lowered 'sex drive', except in the first few hours after a relapse.
But since getting addicted to porn many years ago, I've never gone without porn or masturbation for 30 days, so it might occur later.
 
leo da king said:
Nofap kills artificial stimulation so at the start you will have a VERY VERY LOW sex drive.

After day 60-180(standards is day 90 but not in every case) your drive will become VERY VERY HIGH
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Damn that sucks because I want to have the lowest sex drive that I possibly can (I am not even joking).
 
Arkangel Colon said:
Damn that sucks because I want to have the lowest sex drive that I possibly can (I am not even joking).
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I can have a low sex drive even with a naked girl in front of me if I want. Or I can have the maximum sex drive and let the party begin and have sex with a sexy girl. I'm basically able to switch my libido ON and OFF as I wish. And no, only abstaining from porn doesn't give you this powerful quality. NoFap is not enough.
 
Veronico said:
I can have a low sex drive even with a naked girl in front of me if I want. Or I can have the maximum sex drive and let the party begin and have sex with a sexy girl. I'm basically able to switch my libido ON and OFF as I wish. And no, only abstaining from porn doesn't give you this powerful quality.
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I wanna turn mines off permanently.
 
Arkangel Colon said:
I wanna turn mines off permanently.
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Why? It is possible to do that. Just don't ON it anymore. But I don't know why you would want to do that.

I already have my sex drive low, it's just that I make it high whenever I want. And I'm always attracted to girls even though I can also be not attracted to them. Simply because I am a guy. Natural attraction. Whic means that even if my libido is OFF, I will never be asexual, for the simple fact that I am a male.
 
Veronico said:
Why? It is possible to do that. Just don't ON it anymore. But I don't know why you would want to do that.

I already have my sex drive low, it's just that I make it high whenever I want. And I'm always attracted to girls even though I can also be not attracted to them. Simply because I am a guy. Natural attraction. Whic means that even if my libido is OFF, I will never be asexual, for the simple fact that I am a male.
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I never said I wasn't attracted to women, I do aroused by then at times too. I just don't want to have sex with any women, I don't want sex with any man, and I don't want sex with anybody (and I mean ANYBODY).
 
Veronico said:
Then don't have sex, lol?
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The only reason I say stuff like this is because I know that the vast majority of heterosexual women want sex. So I didn't have sex, then I wouldn't want them to cheat on me, which would result in me beating the heck out of a guy and I don't wanna get violent with people. But i feel like if I dated asexual women, I feel like I would be dissatisfied and unhappy.
 
leo da king said:
I am nice and helpful to everyone, including asexual women, but I don't really agree with asexuality, but I'd never judge a person based on their beliefs.

Heterosexual women: If a girl is really super hot, but has a terrible personality, it kind of turns me of.

To me, what I want is a relationship with a women who gets me and isn't mean at all that I can spend all my life with. Sex would be just a bonus.

But I won't have sex till marriage not only because of religious beliefs but also, I want to give my virginity to the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, not some random woman that I don't even know.

As you see, I'm not a sex driven person.
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My virginity would not be for sale to anyone, in my opinion, even if it was with the "special person."
 
leo da king said:
I can get hard by holding a girl's hand.(I know it's weird)
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Why would that be weird?
I mean, it doesn't happen to me as I hold girls' hands more than rarely, but I can imagine it happening in a romantic situation.
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Arkangel Colon said:
My virginity would not be for sale to anyone, in my opinion, even if it was with the "special person."
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It's not for sale. You're giving it to someone.
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