Does PMO cause premature ejaculation?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by staraimer, Sep 23, 2016.

  1. staraimer

    staraimer Fapstronaut

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    Hi All,

    I'm not sure about others, but when I PMO, it takes me about a minute to O, does this means a premature ejaculation? How long does it takes for you to O normally? and does the premature ejaculation caused by PMO go away to normal after the 90 days reboot when having sex?

    Thanks for the help
     
  2. Tj720

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    Actually most guys report the opposite: PMO makes it HARDER for them to get and maintain an erection, and usually no erection = no orgasm. It's called PIED (porn induced erectile dysfunction) and can be a serious problem for guys with Porn addictions. They get so desensitized to sexual stimuli that just normal sexual pleasure isn't enough for them anymore. Your experience could mean many things depending on your age, frequency of PMO, etc. If you're worried about your sexual performance, I can guarantee you that the #1 secret to better sex is this - NO PMO. It makes it so much more satisfying when you have real, emotionally bonded sex with a real person and aren't thinking about porn you've seen. And PMO is such a selfish act (it's literally all about pleasing yourself) that it takes away the best part of sex - focusing on pleasing your partner. Breaking free of a PMO addiction will be the best thing you could imagine for your sex life.
     
  3. stephen12332

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    I have premature ejaculation as well and i don't know what to do about it. I joined this site a day ago and from that time to now i have masturbated twice.i am trying to stop but i don't what to do.it likes it takes over me. Now i have premature ejaculation and my erection is not what it used to be. I am 17 years old i started masturbating when i was 15. will NO PMO stop all that and i"ll recover back??
     
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  4. staraimer

    staraimer Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the response.

    Is it, I think it's a bit odd, I've read that PMO causes premature ejaculation, I never had sex with real partner its just my observation when M. I think one minute is too little to satisfy a partner. I'm 29 and been PMOed since when I was 17, on average I would say 4 times a week. I'm on no PMO hard mode now, it's tough to date even though I'm on day 11 still, but I'll try to stick to it.
     
  5. staraimer

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    Well you're only 17 and did it for two years which I wouldn't say its a long time compared to me. But word of advise, stop it while you can, with two years of it it shouldn't get that hard to stop, the more you do it the harder it gets to stop.

    From reading many posts and other people's experience, things tend to go back to normal after stopping PMO for certain period of time, time defers from person to another.
     
  6. mike lowry

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    there may be a link between porn and premature ejaculation, porn is a superstimulus, that means it delivers an abnormal level of dopamine to your brain. you should try some MO without the porn. also, you may want to consider quitting porn before you develop serious erection and libido issues.
     
  7. stephen12332

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    Thanks a lot guys. Am on day 7 of no PMO and already am starting to feel much better in my skin and have become more confident in myself. Now,i intend to quit PMO forever and i know that i can do it. Anytime am ever going to have an O it must be with a real person.
     
  8. Tommy_0113

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    I haven't PMOd for over a month. Obviously everytime I do get hard now (usually in the mornings) I feel like one or two strokes would make me cum.

    I'm of the theory that the longer you don't cum, the more sensitive and desperate your penis is to do it!
     
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  9. stephen12332

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    I think that's it's the brain,i to experience premature ejaculation. after 5 days of no PMO i intentionally masturbated to see if there is anything different. i organsmed in less than 1 minute,but i continued after that and it took me more than 6 minutes to orgasm the secound time. usually it would not take up to 4 minutes. i believe that if i should do noPMO for three months, when i have sex the first time after those months,i might ejaculate quick, but the nest time is going to be longer and longer after that. now i have made up my mind not to get in any kind of intimate relationship with any girl for at least four months.
     
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  10. seekingabetterlife

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    So... I have a lot of insight into this.

    I'm 30 years old and had PE since college. I remember loosing my virginity and lasting long. In fact, I didn't really feel any need to finish when I was with her. I was nervous going in but during the sex literally was saying.... "wow.... I'm lasting long... this is easy". Or, something like that.

    Fast forward to age 25 (yes many years went by with sexual encounters but without actual sex) and I had real sex. Didn't last long. I've been sexually active with the same girl all these years and always struggled with finishing in like 2 - 5 minutes. I did experience two lucky times (not sure why it happened) where I lasted long without taking supplements (more on this later). This was well into my PMO. By time I met her and shared real sex I was truly into my addiction pretty heavy.

    This leads me to think there very well might be a link between PMO and PE. Maybe I truly was "normal" before messing up my sexual abilities with PMO.

    The only thing that has helped me was taking drugs. I would buy a pill (natural supposedly) to get me going and simultaneously take a pill (chemical drug) to delay myself. It worked fairly with keeping me from finishing early. I could sometimes go for 40 minutes or so.

    Sometimes I sit back and say ..... "Damn.... You have to settle for drugs to change things.... That's so sad and crazy."

    Really, it very well may be the PMO. I'll have to give myself ample time to heal and test it out using a fleshlight or see what happens during sex without drugs involved.

    You know what just went through my mind?? Felt bad that I was under the influence of PMO for all the time I was with my ex. Things (including sex between us) could have been so much better. Really.... it makes me feel terrible. Hopefully in time I can forgive myself and let go of things. Who knows?? Maybe my ex and I can pursue things between us again with me being PMO free for a very long time. Got get over this disgusting disease.
     
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