Does porn made you have problems to find a girl?

It probably did. I remember trying to punch way above my weight while bitching about being lonely

 

I can relate. I started watching porn when i was around 13 i remember. I was alone growing up in a religious family in a religious country i had no computer no internet could you imagine finding the face of a beautiful girl on the packing of a hand soap sexy and MO to that i couldnt interact with girls by the time i could interact it was so late its hard the brain has a weird way it yess women as sex objects i hate growing up in a religious country in a religious family and i am never going back i want to be free i want to connect and love women naturally and forget the images i have seen the last 15 years

 

The religion is a just man-made thing and the country i come from is a factory of its exploitation. my father did never talk to me about my puberty and we were always told to pray and don't look or meet any girl. Imagine growing up alone in a family with 4 sisters and practicing religion with-out questioning anything. Sneaking to watch porn and doing pmo and feeling guilty alone.

 

Exactly the first time i ejaculated i was seeing the face of a girl on the packaging of the soap, i thought i have destroyed myself and i would never be normal again. I wish someone would have talked to me, to put some sense into me. That its fake and one should meet the sexual needs in a natural way with a person you love

 

I wish i would have met a girl friend back then to learn things in a natural way but it was and still a very coservative society, most young people are desperate and lack of sex education makes it worse.

 

Muslims.

 

Porn made it hard for you to find a girl because why?
Girls in porn are uber ugly if I may say so. An average girl might not be a sex bomb, but she is probably all right if you discount those that don't take care of themselves (fat etc.)
Why not meet people to become your friends if you don't want a relationship? Maybe it could develop into something? Maybe they know that girl that you would like?
It is rather unlikely that she will find you, I am afraid.

 

I Understand you amigo, and you definitely have reasons to feel this way.
Girls in porn look so hot, and when you look around it's like they don't exist and even if you see the same girl you masturbated to, she doesn't seem that sexy in real life.
But you gotta keep in mind that any car on the brochures look way better than parking on the street. Screen and photography has a an effect like that in our minds.
My girlfriend looks way more sexier on her instagram but when she's around me she really doesn't have the same sexual effect on me. I don't mean I'm not turned on when I see her in real life but not like when I see her photos on insta. It's a different kinda sexual attraction in reality. You see her flaws and simply don't fantasize about her like in porn.

What I'm trying to tell you is that even your favorite porn star sits next to you and starts chatting, you'll see she is just like any other girl. Trust me.

I'm kinda ashamed to say that but I find my girl sexier in the sex videos we made than while having actual sex in reality.
Because I know porn fucked my mind and for so many years and that something in my mind is wrong.
So recovery is a must for a happier life.

 

"I want to be free, I want to connect and love woman naturally and FORGET THE IMAGES I HAVE SEEN THE LAST 15 YEARS".

This amigo, is my biggest wish in this nofap journey.
I'm ready give up on many things in exchange to just to format my mind from the viruses porn infected in my mind.

 

I remember when i got my first wet dream i thought i have gotten sick of some desease but it was perfectly fine. Now i would give anything to have a wet dream naturally. I wish i could heal my heart and clear my mind of all the fake pictures and emotions and the pleasure wired to them over the last 15 years. I wish i would feel innocent again. I never had a girl friend this PMO was the only thing who didn't let me build the self confidence friendships and funny attitude girls like people around me find me very funny but they don't know the reality i am hiding and all the images i have in my mind hard wired to fakeness. In reality every woman is beautiful its the emotional connection which makes her desirable and it never dies. we should learn to see them as humans like us men not like some objects to play with physically or emotionaly i wish i could meet my girl who loves me the same my mother loves me. i would cry for that.

 

Porn definitely makes you less motivated to find a real girl, and has a negative impact on the way you view women. However, I don't think it makes a man less able to obtain a girlfriend then he would be otherwise.

There's an important distinction between the ability to get a girl, and the motivation to find one.