Does sex count?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by dan3dan3, Jan 22, 2017.

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  1. dan3dan3

    dan3dan3 Fapstronaut

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    So I'm about to begin my rebooting process. Its been a while since I've tried this. But I think by writing an entry on here it will help me to take this more serious and help me to achieve better results.

    Something that does confuse me is sex... part of me sees its as a positive thing.... I mean its what i should be doing surely. But another part of me thinks it will just lead me on to watching porn and masturbating a lot. Recently when I've been in bed with a girl I can only get turned on by the stuff I've seen in extreme porn... I just want to get turned on by standard boring sex!

    What do people think about having sex while abstaining from masturbation? Is it beneficial or not?
     
  2. BigCheese

    BigCheese Fapstronaut

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    Sex helped my reboot personally. Other than the chaser affect, you won't really have urges to PMO cause you already have a release. Plus it helps get into your head that the natural way for you to O is through sex, and not through pixels and your hand.
     
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  3. change_my_life

    change_my_life Fapstronaut

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    Hey big cheese how long were u in ur reboot till u had sex? Was it from the start? How long did it take you to reboot?
     
  4. BigCheese

    BigCheese Fapstronaut

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    I didn't have sex until 50 something days in. I recommend you atleast go 30ish before you do have sex tho. Because the chaser affect that comes will have you really tempted to MO. So you need strong will power beforehand. My reboot is still going, so its nowhere near being done
     
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  5. change_my_life

    change_my_life Fapstronaut

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    What if the chaser effect does not seem to happen as much? ..and u dnt have an urge to MO...and u just occasionally have sex and 0 with ur partner would this be showing that ur reboot is working faster?
     

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