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does this counted as relapsing

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by thirdstar1, Dec 4, 2017.

  1. Dec 4, 2017 #1
    thirdstar1

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    Hey guys, i want to ask a question, so last night i got a wet dream, but the strange is i can likely get some control in my dream, i really dont want to relapse so i like hold my orgasm, but i cant hold it so i got my orgasm in the night, and i can clearly remember what is my dream, and the strange thing is i only abstain from PMO for likely 3 day but i got wet dream which is i cant control. can you guys help me to help me with this or make some solution, thanks for your answer i appreciate it
     
    thirdstar1, Dec 4, 2017
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  2. Dec 5, 2017 #2
    Inactive User

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    Hey thirdstar1! Don't worry about it—wet dreams are not relapses! A relapse means you've intentionally fallen back into your old bad habits of watching porn. A dream that you can't control is totally different from that. You are good as long as you stay strong while you're awake.

    In my opinion, even if you think you can control what's going on in your dream, you are still not conscious and your self-control and thoughts do not reflect you in real life or what you've trained for. So sometimes (this happens rarely) if I get a dream where I want to O, I'll go ahead and go for it. I think that's okay. What's NOT okay is thinking sexual thoughts all week in an attempt to dream about them (which I also used to do ugh).
     
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  3. Dec 5, 2017 #3
    BrowneyedBri

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    If it was involuntary,
    You are good
     
    BrowneyedBri, Dec 5, 2017
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