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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Astroonautiuous, Sep 14, 2020.

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  1. Sep 14, 2020 #1
    Astroonautiuous

    Astroonautiuous New Fapstronaut

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    Hey,

    A 27 year old guy here. I’ve been on NoFap for 11 days now and its my first time ever doing this. I’m an addict of PMO/sex since I was a kid. I have always fighting with this in my relationships as-well and it kills me.. I’m about to destroy my current relationship too.

    I have realized that now after 11 days I’m craving less and less porn wich is good! BUT I can’t get enough of my girlfriend (she’s a really attractive girl). It’s like all of the urges/craving is now focusing on her. I mean, I can’t even sleep next to her when she’s in her panties for example. Makes me wanna masturbate in the bed besides her. I hate that I objectify her too. And my mind fantasies about me seeing her naked and stuff all the time, it’s makes me crazy.

    So, my question is. Is nofap gonna help me out with this? Or i’m A crazy pervert with un-normal sex drive? There’s anyone in the same situation or it’s just me?
     
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  2. Sep 14, 2020 #2
    palindromo

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    when you quit porn, your libido temporarily increases, the stimuli seem stronger, then it settles down
    I quoted https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/


    After some time it can also decrease with flatlines
    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/
    It would be better to eliminate the stimulus and not look at her for some times when she 's dressed sexy, if you are doing hard mode with no PMO
     
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  3. Sep 14, 2020 #3
    Astroonautiuous

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  4. Sep 15, 2020 #4
    alphakadabro

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    Totally natural. Keep going and stay present with the feelings in your body in the moment. Don't fantasize in your mind. Be absolute alive with your senses. This is your brain's way of readjusting to real life.

    If you need help regulating your phone, internet and computer usage, I made a post about that. Stay on the path and don't go back to PMO ever again.
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/my-1-tip-change-your-environment.288435/
     
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  5. Sep 15, 2020 #5
    Astroonautiuous

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