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Don't know what happend

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by fghr24, May 17, 2015.

  1. May 17, 2015 #1
    fghr24

    fghr24 Fapstronaut

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    4 months ago I lasted a month without fapping, then after that I re did myself and made it to 2 months! But ever since I fapped after the 2 months I can't even last a week without fapping or even 4 to 2 days. I really don't know what happend I thought that I was done with fapping. I just don't know what to do, can anyone help?
     
    fghr24, May 17, 2015
    fghr24, May 17, 2015
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  2. May 17, 2015 #2
    crushurcravings

    crushurcravings Fapstronaut

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    What you're experiencing would be the chaser effect. Getting passed 10 days would make it significantly easier. That's really all there is to it.
     
    crushurcravings, May 17, 2015
    crushurcravings, May 17, 2015
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  3. May 17, 2015 #3
    Bjourn

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    Posts like this scares me, as I have never really gotten very far in my streaks, and so I just fear another massive mountain of disappointment and relapses rise a head of me.
    I know that every mans journey is different from that of the other, so I guess I should take any advances on the misery and just stay strong, but when the ultimate goal is a life without PMO it just feels even further away when the struggle beyond a month or more is described as being possible even worse, than that of the first couple of weeks.

    Stay strong and I'll do the same.
     
    Bjourn, May 17, 2015
    Bjourn, May 17, 2015
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  4. May 17, 2015 #4
    Nomorelosttime

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    I am convinced that it never becomes easier, but as we put in the hard work of learning about ourselves and why we do what we do we develop the tools and skills to do increasingly more difficult things with more ease.
     
    Nomorelosttime, May 17, 2015
    Nomorelosttime, May 17, 2015
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