So last night i found ut that my partner had relapsed again for a few days...using gifs on FB messenger to hide it from the acountability software that we got. During this period hes been talking about how good its going and how proude he is that he made it to 12days etc... And i dont know what to do anymore, i have made my boundires and consequenses very clear. Having lying as the single most important one, fine if you relaps but dont lie to me. For the first time ever im considering leaving, even tho that isnt an easy option. But what else is there to do at this point?