I don't want to sound arrogant but either you don't get my point or you're just out trolling. Yes, it was my own fault for staying around these people for so long but their destructive habits and way of thinking seemed to be there before I entered the picture. At the time, I wasn't aware of the effect of being around negative people so yes, I was also responsible for staying around them for too long. Some things in life are just outside of your control (i.e. not fixable) and therefore, no valid reason exists for complaining about it. Such a thing is the weather. If the weather outside is shit and I start complain about it, I should do myself good by stop complaining since nothing can't be done regarding the mighty forces of nature. Those are the petty things I meant.