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ED and PE after 1 1/2 yrs of nofap

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by 3nigma, May 16, 2021.

  1. 3nigma

    3nigma Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys. So I had a streak a couple of years ago where I went about 1 1/2 years hard mode no PMO. I was found it easy as I was on Paxil at the time and it made it difficult to masturbate and my sex-drive was dulled substantially. When I finally broke my streak, I found that I couldn't get an erection without physical stimulation and my sex drive was dead. After coming off the Paxil, things were no better. I never get horny anymore, never get morning wood, never really get erections at all unless I force it by touching myself or having a woman touch me. I feel like a shell of my former sexual self. I used to have so much sexual energy and the sad thing is I wasted it all on PMO! My erections aren't even strong enough to penetrate my girlfriend. I've tried Viagra. I've tried the pump. The last option is to use an injection directly into my penis. This is all very upsetting. I don't know what to do. I'm on wellbutrin which is supposed to make you hornier and help with ED but it doesn't help.
     
  2. Longtime27

    Longtime27 Fapstronaut

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    There is no script or formula for this - many people on here do report libido returning after a rewire away from addiction to PMO/artificial stimuli (assuming that was what lead you to try NoFap in the first place?). Its pretty natural for libido to decrease over time, and it can also be the case that due to the intensity of porn addiction and the recovery, it may be that it doesn't ever fully recover (I.e you're not likely to have that same raw sexual energy as you once did because you're mind/body know that this can't happen).

    I understand where you're coming from as I feel the same currently (minimal libido or general horniness), and it is frustrating. My sexual energy is very much diminished, but for me, it was misplaced for so long that I feel like it will take time to re-align. I.e my suppressed libido feels like a coping mechanism to avoid my subconscious taking over and landing me in the same addicted mess as before).

    There is plenty more to life than sex, and sometimes the more the pressure mounts, the harder it is to overcome.

    I don't know if these words will help or not, but you're not alone, and many of us on this forum may never experience that same potent sexual energy as we once did, because perhaps we simply can't, as we cannot control it?
     
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  3. 3nigma

    3nigma Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, I'm on a bunch of medications that can cause sexual dysfunction so last night I cut one of them in half and ended up not sleeping all night. I'm gonna try and get off some of this shit.
     
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  4. Ramos1999

    Ramos1999 New Fapstronaut

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    Please don’t use injections man, I have a really simple solution, eat healthy food that increase blood circulation like fish with a lot of omega 3, fruits like pomegranate and others food good for blood circulation and stop drinking soda and unhealthy food, stop smoking and stop all kind of activity that you know is bad for your body. After that for the libido there is a simple solution just use natural herbs like ginseng and stuff like that, in countries like Jamaica and ans African country they are always active even when they are old because they drink natural mixed herb solutions. I repeat train your cardio a lot, lift weights, eat healthy and drink all the natural good libido stuff you can. And if you believe in God pray a lot and then I challenge you to not get horny and not have an erection. Forget what society tell you masturbation isn’t normal, a man need a wife and need to do it only with her.
     

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