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Edged but retreated before ejaculating, have I lost?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Gladiator, Apr 12, 2014.

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  1. Apr 14, 2014 #21
    JohnnyTheFox

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    Stop fooling yourself! Edging is the worst thing you can do! Please follow this link:
    http://yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i...without-orgasm
     
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  2. Apr 14, 2014 #22
    Caveat Emptor

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    Vertigo's right. You're fooling yourself. You're rationalizing. You're taking the "scientist" approach.
    Dirty talking with a girl on the net is a waste of time. Its porn. Its fantasizing about this girl you'll never meet and don't have a chance with. Its fake and fleeting, just like a porn video. How much time did you spend looking for this girl? Did you have multiple tabs? Were you visiting multiple chat rooms? You did this for two hours!?

    Sound familiar??

    That's two hours you'll never get back.

    Cybering, dirty talking, etc, is porn, in text. This "random (unimportant) girl on the net" took two hours of your life from you, just like two hours worth of porno videos used to.

    Check out this thread for some clarification.
     
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  3. Apr 14, 2014 #23
    Gasparzinho

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    What do you think you are addicted to, my friend? If it was to porn, you would just watch it without needing to touch your penis. If it was to orgasm, your masturbation sessions would be as quick as possible.
    What you are really addicted to is edging. We all are. It's what makes our brains bathe in dopamine, that's what we are looking for when we watch porn.

    If you keep edging, you will remain addicted.

    Edging is pernicious because it doesn't seem as bad as the rest and we think we can control it but we can't.

    Stay away from it and don't underestimate it.
     
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  4. Apr 15, 2014 #24
    Gladiator

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    You guys were right, edging is the worst crap I've ever done. Edging for 20 min did not make much diffrence for me but edging for hours was total crap.

    I woke up with a mild migraine and my dick can barely get hard today even though I still feel lusty when I see a nice blonde at the mall. I still feel energetic enough to hit the gym and do my daily stuff, apperantly because I did not ejaculate. When I ejaculate I become lazy as shit for least 2 days.

    I did not watch porn when I edged, but I exchanged dirty words and nude pics with couple of girls on vk.com. Like I said porn itself is not what is addictive to me but being sexually stimulated is something I crave for, either by chatting dirty with random chicks on the net or having camsex whenever I feel the urge. There is somekind of sexual narcissism in there too.

    Lucky I was born with a large penis and I have a athletic body so I've never had problems with finding girls on the net that I can get to talk dirty and send nudes.

    It's a terrible addiction and probably harder to stop then the addiction for regular internet porn. It also takes a lot more time then just jerk off to some porn vid since there are other people involved in my addiction that I crave something from.
     
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  5. Apr 15, 2014 #25
    Caveat Emptor

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    All that stuff you mentioned, pics, cam sex, dirty chat, etc is porn. It's not a video, but it's still porn. It's easy to get, it's fleeting, it means nothing and it's a waste of time. If it's not with a intimate partner in person, it's porn.

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be kind of proud to be not addicted to traditional porn as if these other things are the lesser of two evils.
    But that's not true. They'll waste your time, sap your energy, cloud your mind, etc etc.

    I hope I don't sound too harsh, just trying to help.

    If you want NoFap superpowers, you need to cut out porn and everything you might substitute it with.
     
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  6. Apr 17, 2014 #26
    Gladiator

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    You might have a point, im reseting to night becuase of excessive edging, it evetually led me to panic attacks because I never released all the tension, my panic attack was so harsh I was in a hospital for 2 days and docktors checked my heart and lungs and it was all okay, short story it was all in my brain, least I got some drugs after leaving the hospital, be eating them chill pills daily for a nice effect, but but one thing for sure is, I'M NEVER GONNA FUCKING EDGE AGAIN! That shit got me into a hospital thinking I was going to have a heartattack

    I was edging for 2 days straight, drew my brain into fight or flight mode.
     
    Gladiator, Apr 17, 2014
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  7. Apr 18, 2014 #27
    Caveat Emptor

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    Sometimes you just have to learn the hard way.
    You got this, man.
     
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