Edging question

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by frequency, Dec 18, 2019.

  1. frequency

    frequency Fapstronaut

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    Can I fap until orgasm is close but not orgasm to train myself cuz with all this built up energy i cum so fast while having sex.
     
  2. Kligor

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    Hahah NO :),that's edging with purpose(In my opinion relapse).All best man.
     
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  3. Alex1111

    Alex1111 Fapstronaut

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    Edging is worse than a relapse. So why consider doing it..?
     
  4. frequency

    frequency Fapstronaut

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    how is it worse im not even O-ing
     
  5. DaveyCrockett

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    Edging is worse than PMO'ing because you're still masturbating, don't make excuses. You are also releasing all kinds of endorphins, lots of dopamine and all other manner of chemicals in your brain which make you think you're having sex, when you're not. Don't believe my word for it, just try it for yourself and see what happens. Edging never ends well, although it's your life.
     
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  6. frequency

    frequency Fapstronaut

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    then what do you suggest me to do
     
    Last edited: Dec 19, 2019
  7. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    Edging is worse than full blown only when you watch porn half hour+ or constantly playing with yourself or read erotic stories for hours.If you edging for few seconds or even one minute that's bad too but after a day you feel same like before edging(In my case).When you have full blown relapse(PMO)you are like in shocks for some time and need few days to recover to feel like before relapse.When someone edging without O he can give himself hour or more dopamine rush,that's only when edging is worse than relapse.
     
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  8. DaveyCrockett

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    I suggest that you don't PMO, that's the entire point of NoFap. NoFap = no PMO. You might experience like 1% of the benefits of NoFap if you masturbate or ejaculate but don't look at porn. NoFap is not easy, NoFap is not supposed to be easy. You have to go through great difficulties in life to become stronger and reap rewards.
     
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  9. frequency

    frequency Fapstronaut

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    I don’t mean to edge for an hour, i mean to edge until i reach the point when i feel im about to bust and i stop im not doing this for pleasure but to teach my body not to bust while having sex
     
  10. Kligor

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    I already answer you,that is not good idea,you will get nothing more than feeling regret,but it is your life you can do whatever you want with yourself :)
     
  11. BraveBear

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    Dude, you're not thinking about this correctly AT ALL.

    "Edging" is the intentional act of KEEPING yourself on the edge of ejaculation, hence the name. It means you're intentionally always being in danger of one small movement and losing everything to orgasm and ejaculation.

    From reading your original post, it sounds like what your want is to be able to enjoy sex for longer without coming. Got it. We're all in that boat. The way to do that is to enjoy sex without making it "orgasm focused". It involves not only physical exercises, like some briefly mentioned above, but also the practice of a mindset. This is how people can go for hours. No joke.

    Read this, it works. https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191
     
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  12. SemenTank

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    Good luck with blue ballsack, dude ;D
     
  13. frequency

    frequency Fapstronaut

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    You guys are frankly very correct
     
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  14. I chuckled at your response Double09! But I agree, you’ve received some very good responses. I like what BraveBear said. And I think you’re thinking about sex like you’ve seen it happen in P. Delayed O. Lasting for hours. Hells bells. If only.

    Maybe talking with your partner about how you can both work together to make things last longer. Just a thought.
     
  15. FY_33

    FY_33 Fapstronaut

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    train it, but please ejaculate. Your brain will go hot if you don't ejaculate it, i already try it
     
  16. Saythatagain

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    I'll also agree, I read up a little on moving your energy around and thought it was just talk. I tried it after a 30 plus day stretch of no sex or MO with success. I was able to go and I'm not joking almost 2 hours of slow slow penetration looking into her eyes and doing a lot of kissing, touching and connecting. I actually rubbed my shaft raw. I was almost going to get all the way without having an O but lost it at the end.
     
  17. nfpexperiment

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    If you edge too much can it cause Erection Disfunction ?
     
  18. nfpexperiment

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    Edging without using porn, when you have mornig wood for example, morning wood happens without porn in the morning when you wake up....
     
  19. Nicko Stretch

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    Having sex involves 2 people. Talk to your partner about your concerns and learn to make love slowly.
     

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