Ejaculating Earlier

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Raj786, Oct 18, 2021.

How to get rid of this problem ?

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  1. Raj786

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    Hlo, I am 24 years old boy. I am virgin. I am facing a problem from last 1.5- 2 months. Whenever I masturbates....i ejaculates in approx 1minute. This problem is permanent or temporary ? If this problem is going to be a serious problem then please help me.
     
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  2. IGY

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    Hi Raj, Welcome. :)

    It could be you are addicted to porn, masturbation and orgasm (PMO). If yes, the answer is to stop PMO for at least three months. Do whatever it takes to reboot your brain's reward system and return to normal sexual functioning.

    The great porn experiment | Gary Wilson | TEDxGlasgow - YouTube
     
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  4. IGY

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    What about the nightfall ?

    Wet dreams are not intentional and are not a relapse, so don't worry.
     
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  6. jcl1990

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    It is not a permanent problem. Just stop masturbating and stop watching porn. Over time your body and mind will reset themselves and you will be normal again. Just don’t masturbate, it’s not necessary for life
     
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  7. jcl1990

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    This problem can turn serious though if you don’t stop
     
  8. bananafarm.monkey

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    Are you sure bro? I have had PE whole my life. I'm 15 rn and I started before I even could ejaculate.DO you think a guy like me can heal?
     
  9. IGY

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    What you are saying is not logical bro.

    How can you have PE - premature ejaculation - before you could even ejaculate?
     
  10. bananafarm.monkey

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    hey bro. What I meant was that when I was 13 and masturbated I'd have an orgasm after 30 seconds.

    I just did a quick research and found out that the word "orgasm" and "ejaculation" isn't the same thing.
     
  11. bananafarm.monkey

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    But like do you understand me? As I said when I was 13 years old i'd have an orgasm litreally after 30 seconds, and right now as a 15 year old I can't even hold 30 seconds. Can I change? Can I heal from PE?

    bro I know this was so confusing and didn't gave meaning at all, but I really hope you understood lol....
     
  12. IGY

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    I understand what you meant now, don't worry about it. ;)

    As for healing, yes, by stopping porn, masturbation and orgasms - PMO - your brain will heal from the addiction. :)
     
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  13. Doctorzakyyy

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    How are you now?
     
  14. Doctorzakyyy

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    Are you sure? Because some people belive in PE that come from over mastburation can cured by train your self to mastburate solwly with low pressure
     
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    I’m not sure they are grasping your question directly as it relates to your concerns. When you are physical with any one or anything new you are probably going to cum much faster and before you want to. I was like you and jo or PMO very quickly to not get caught, also in ways “normal” sex would not replicate. I trained or conditioned my body to go from start to finish within a min. Then as I lived on my own and could watch it as long as I wanted I went to edging for almost an hour every time. Then several times a day, etc… it was a problem because when I got the real thing, pop it was over. There are some great resources in here to help. Clearing your mind will help. If you want to just test it do this. Try to just masturbate with nothing else and see if you struggle to keep hard and how difficult it is to cum. I was shocked myself. Using a flesh light is the closest thing to real if you want to step up your game. Honestly, once you can be confident, laugh at your self with your partner and explore and enjoy each other you will be good. Lots of people can’t get there because of pride and insecurities. It’sa path and it takes time to walk it. If you sprint to the end chances are you will be alone and missing everything around you man. Good luck
     
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  16. Doctorzakyyy

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    Iam sorry iam just confused .. so you was have premature ejaculation and cured by nofap or edging ?
    Iam 23 years old and at least there is 5 or 7 years to marry .. so i dont know if nofap can cure my PE by time or no .. thanks for your time
     
  17. Killyourlust

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    You are 24 and last 1 minute and I am 17 last 20 secs . I am in worst spot than u brother.
     
  18. bananafarm.monkey

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    I haven't quit porn yet. I had a streak of 14 days and when I fapped ut was the same, i lased frikking 10 seconds.
     
  19. Raj786

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    Sometime....i do prostate massage.....is it normal ?
     
  20. Wugazi32

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    Nothing wrong with that, that's a good sign! If you can get good erections and are sensitive.
     

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