Ejaculating in my sleep. 4 times!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by kayg5554, Jun 29, 2020.

  1. kayg5554

    kayg5554 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi. in 3 days I'm gonna reach 90 days challenge and until now I had lots of boners while sleeping but didn't have any sexual desire.
    I really wanted to be touched sometimes because I felt like I miss this but I cannot tell I was horny. and also in all that period I had lots of wet dreams that lead to full ejaculation while sleeping.

    BTW; I did the challenge before and was really horny back then and could not hold it anymore so I was breaking down after 77 days.

    should I worry about that I don't feel horny from one hand but ejaculating while sleeping from the other hand?
     
  2. SynapticMagic

    SynapticMagic Fapstronaut

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    Wet dreams aren’t an issue. Do they set you back? Not really. You might feel a bit groggy the next day or two, but they really aren’t a big issue. Just keep pushing forward.
     
  3. kayg5554

    kayg5554 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for replying! And should I worry about me not feeling horny?
     
  4. SynapticMagic

    SynapticMagic Fapstronaut

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    Not at all, that's completely normal. It's what is called the flatline. Basically your mind has been conditioned to only receive sexual stimulation from porn. When you remove porn from the equation, your mind has nothing to be stimulated by. As the connections within your brain that link arousal to porn weaken, you'll experience a flatline because there are now no links between arousal and anything else. Obviously extremely oversimplified, but that's kind of what's going on.

    The answer, is to simply remain committed to nofap. I usually recommend singe people go at least 60 days of no sexual contact at all, but I agree that the community standard of 90 days is best. Depending on your own experience, you may even need 120 days. However, personally I think 60 - 90 days of no sexual contact at all is best for single people.

    Once you reach 90 days, your job is to start having sexual contact with a real life person to begin strengthening the connection between arousal and real life person. Many men struggle with porn-induced erectile dysfunction for way longer than 90 days, and the reason for this is that they haven't strengthened this connection! All they've done is weakened the connection with porn. So again, you're almost at 90 days now, so I'd say start looking for a real life partner. Easier said than done obviously, so if you need some help with that don't hesitate to PM me.
     
  5. kayg5554

    kayg5554 New Fapstronaut

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    Wow! I really appreciate the very detailed answer
    I can say I'm more calm now
    Thank you so much
     
  6. Ekalb

    Ekalb Fapstronaut
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    Ok so the muscles of your soul has finished another rep in the gym and rested, now get your ass back up and hit another rep.
     

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