I started my PMO-free challenge 8 months ago. I'd met a woman I liked and we were going to start a sexual relationship, but it was a disaster because of my delayed ejaculation caused by too much PMO. It was exactly that - DE - which killed my previous relationship. To explain: I'm 52 and this is just my third sexual relationship. At first, I was under the impression that even while in the act of sex, I had to imagine one of the porn scenarios that I'd got used to, so either I couldn't ejaculate, or it took ages. This caused me some performance anxiety. But now, in the last two months, I seem to have got over that, but I feel like a horny teenager - blue balls, and finding it difficult not to ejaculate very quickly after penetration. So I'm wondering if I should re-introduce masturbation as a kind of brake? As background, I don't live in the same city as my girlfriend and though I see her most weekends, she has a 12-year-old son, so our opportunities for sex are limited. I feel sexually stimulated now whenever I'm with her, but don't always have the opportunity to see it through. Also to say that I see huge improvements after 8 months PMO-free. I am not reliant on porn to ejaculate and can actually feel present to my partner during sex and not be hiding in my head somewhere. On the down side, in the eight months of our sexual relationship, she hasn't yet had a single orgasm.