EMERGENCY HELP ME............!

jackcruiser800

Fapstronaut
Guys i have only 4 months to learn , study and get a job all on my own but my habit of relapsing is a mess. I get motivated and try not to fap but in 2 days i get in loops of fapping and destroy thee next days .as i am relapsing everytime i eat more time than ever.

Today i fapped till 10am to 12pm . Fapping , getting hard then soft and this was going on and on with brakes . I even fear that harsh grip might make my organs weak.

I got so many dreams of starting my life as i get job but i am stuck in my mom's House and this dream of starting dating , making friends, enjoying life seems impossible.

These 4 months will decide my future. so,
Guys please scold me .tell me i am a piece of shit .tell me i have no worth.give me harsh realities. I have never scolded my self . I you guys will then idk maybe i can feel the depth of the reality and situation.
I will not get offended.

I think my room has a great impact. Every time i have done it there. So when i entre my room i have to resist very much.
And i think i should try to replace it by movies etc.

Guys help me out give me any advise,scolding, motivation,tips anything to get to study for my carrier
 
I’m not sure how old you are or where you live but most retail jobs are pretty simple to get into. Or if your struggling to get a job you could set up a mini business.

Offer a car washing service, dog walking, gardening etc. And you’re not a piece of shit or worthless. Your amazing

Note down your triggers and try to avoid them. Is it been in the house alone, even if you’re about to do the act. Stop and go for a walk or take a cold shower or exercise.

4 months is a tough timescale to dramatically change your life. Take one day at a time. I’m in a long term relationship and for the first time in a long time I’m taking NoFap serious. After tending to myself pretty much everyday for past god knows how long. I’m now on day 2 of nofap. Had the best gym session in a while last night and there was some 10s in the gym and I resisted looking which is often a trigger. You can do this.
 
dude.. yes.. life sucks, but also it can be good, but you need to do the work. without the work you get no reward. focus on the work and forget the pain
 
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