I have been going through my own version of emotional and spiritual growth over the last couple of years and I have most certainly come a long way, but a thought struck me. How could I possibly know if i grew at all when i have no idea what growth even means. I've updated views and opinions according to what people wiser than me have said and I got past that initial 'I mean and know nothing' attitude and just started living with it. I wouldn't disagree if someone said that I've grown. I couldn't really agree either. My question is how would both be defined?