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Emotionally dead during foreplay

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Almost lost, Sep 25, 2020.

  1. Sep 25, 2020 #1
    Almost lost

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    Hi everyone.

    My gf says I'm emotionally dear during our foreplay . I find that I'm so concentrated on giving her pleasure that I'm not InTouch with myself at all

    I just lie with no noise or expression

    Up to 6months ago I could only cum with a woman during sex but now I can cum with a hand job as well
     
    Almost lost, Sep 25, 2020
    Almost lost, Sep 25, 2020
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  2. Sep 25, 2020 #2
    Bethelightinmyheart

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    Very explicit details entailed.

    This is common amongst many men today: conditioned to be nice guys and always please some woman which we have been trained to do since childhood and on. Of c this lead to dissociating with the self sooner or later.
     
    Bethelightinmyheart, Sep 25, 2020
    Bethelightinmyheart, Sep 25, 2020
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  3. Sep 26, 2020 #3
    MrVaughn

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    Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Richard Glover. It's about some men's need to please women, why we do it and how to stop. This sounds exactly like what he's talking about.
     
    MrVaughn, Sep 26, 2020
    MrVaughn, Sep 26, 2020
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  4. Sep 26, 2020 #4
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    A woman has to enjoy it all. She can last for longer than a guy. If you would just be on top of her and go nuts, you would just end it in couple of minutes and it would lose all the idea of sex.
     
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